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如果父母让你滚蛋
2017-08-27 04:00:46 中国青年网
父母也有自私,会计算,哪些孩子可能中兴家庭,有些孩子不过如此;父母也摆脱不了时代的局限性,假设一个母亲从来不是一个被宠爱的女儿,大概她也不觉得宠爱女儿是种必要;父母拥有一切人的缺点:琐碎、絮叨、多疑、懒惰……
为什么说“不养儿不知父母恩”,一方面是亲身经历了辛苦,才了解了父母的辛苦;另一方面我倒觉得是明白了自己的软弱:你觉得你的父母做得不够好?你做得还没他们好呢。你认为他们从来都不了解你,你犯了错误要么打要么骂,根本没有耐心好好教,现在到你自己了,你上了一天班,累得跟孙子跟狗一样,看到孩子把家里搞得一塌糊涂,你有耐心吗?你的父母偏心,你呢?生了二胎的你,自以为对两个孩子不偏不倚,孩子们也这么觉得吗?
所以,有些孩子在做了父母之后,原谅了父母,那些没做父母的呢?也只能"接受"。
小朋友才有资格抱怨“父母皆祸害”,心理上是巨婴,视父母如天神,一切不如意,无论天灾人祸,是坐地铁时被抢了手机,都是“老天爷瞎了眼”或者“人在做没天看”,统统来源于"父母皆祸害"。但父母其实只是人。不能说,你身高盖过他们一头,却仍然不能用人与人的态度对待他们。
每个成年人,都被岁月刀劈斧凿过。要想改变,还得再次大动干戈。“包容比自由更重要”,这是对双方的要求,为人子女者,必将接受父母的不接受,包容父母的不包容,因为,失去他们,你不舍;伤害他们,你不忍。
而如果父母让你滚蛋--默默地,滚吧。他们不够爱你,但你,也必须接受这“不够”。
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