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好婚姻糊涂着过

2017-09-05 07:32:07   中国青年网

◎朱 凌

有一段日子,我对先生的手机产生了浓厚的兴趣,只要是听到有提醒音,我便想拿起来看看。对于我的这种好奇心,起初他还挺配合,只要我想看,都会拿给我看。可是当有次,我看到一条看似挺暧昧的短信后与他争吵,他的手机,便成了我的禁区。

他说与其我看了又生气,倒不如不看,再说夫妻之间也应该有些隐私。他这样一说,似乎证明了他心里一定就是有鬼,为什么手机都不让我看?当着他的面我不好看,那我就背着看吧,只是当我拿起他的手机时,才发觉他居然设了密码。

那一刻气愤加委屈,让我失去了理智,我逼着他告诉我密码,见我如此动怒,他坚决不告诉我密码。他说夫妻做到了这个份上,还有什么意思,整天疑神疑鬼,整天硝烟四起,这日子还有什么过头?

他的这些话在当时看来是那般的绝情,十年的婚姻,被他说得一分不值。我哭,我闹,可是丝毫不起作用,他就像是块打不湿拧不干的油抹布,任我怎样,他都不肯退让半步。于是冷战,也随之而来。

我以为他会哄我,可是这次他却铁了心的与我较上了劲。看着他那副爱理不理的样子,我就气得牙痒。好友得知这一切后,居然大笑我太傻了,她说:“为这事较真值得吗?短信暧昧并不代表什么,你难道就没有和别人暧昧过吗?”

细想的确有这个情况,在网上聊了多年的一位好友,也时常会发些关心的话语,有时甚至于深夜看到我的朋友圈,还会积极回复。如若将这些话语细品,还真有些小暧昧。幸好先生没有看到,如若看到了,我想他心里也会不舒服。

好友说这好婚姻都是糊涂着过出来的,夫妻之间也应该给彼此一个空间,能不好奇的事情就尽量不要好奇,只要对方大方向是对的,就不要去较真一些细节。你去较真,除了让对方觉得你心胸狭隘以外,得不到任何好处,倒不如睁只眼闭只眼。好婚姻糊涂着过,这话母亲以前也说过。

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