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孩子性格内向 到底是不是一种“病”?
2017-09-04 05:25:58 中国青年网
话题背景
前几天,家长李女士拨通了我们的教育热线,十分焦灼地告诉小编,她的孩子总是沉默寡言,平时也不愿跟别的小朋友一起玩。“别的娃儿都上蹿下跳的,贪玩、有好奇心,就他一个人成天木呆呆的,闷葫芦一样,咋鼓励都不开腔那种,也不爱动。这哪儿像个八九岁的娃儿啊?会不会有啥子毛病啊?”隔着手机屏幕,我都感受到了李女士的无奈与困惑。经过走访,小编发现这个问题还真不是个案。所以,本期我们特别邀请了教育专家——四川省教育科学研究所德育心理室德育教研员李淑英老师,来和大家一起探讨一下关于孩子性格内向的问题中,家长普遍比较关心的几个方面。
1 内向=毛病?
家长:“内向 ”的娃儿各方面都不如 “外向”的娃儿
王女士:我儿子性格特别内向,以前上幼儿园时,都不敢跟老师讲话,尿裤子了都不敢跟老师讲。当时以为他还小,可能怕生。现在都读小学二年级了,还是老样子。本来我也不是特别留意这个事情,因为孩子奶奶说,小孩子就这样,长大了就好了。可是,上周,我看他在小区健身区那儿和别的小朋友玩时,别的小朋友抢了他的玩具,他也只是干瞪眼儿,不敢抢回来。看得出,他内心也有点焦急,可就是温吞吞的,一副很好欺负的样子。这孩子以后是不是都是受欺负的命啊?
宋女士:我觉得我女儿性格也是有严重问题的,大概我和丈夫都是内向性格吧,六岁的女儿也十分内向,课堂上从不主动发言。最明显的就是出门在外,从来也不叫人,人家有时候问她要去哪儿,吃饭没有,她也不理人家。我只好一个劲儿地打圆场:“孩子内向,不懂事。”有次,我就跟她说:“小娃儿要活泼一点懂不?你看人家佳佳,跟你一样大,每次见我,老远都喊阿姨,怎么你就这么没礼貌?”先是听不进去,后来她就毛了,惊抓抓地大喊“我为啥子要喊人家,我都不认识人家,我干嘛要喊人家?”我就觉得她是在为自己的内向找借口。
老师:外向的孩子更容易被关注
王老师:在学校里,通常外向一些的孩子更活跃些,愿意表现自己,因此容易被老师、其他同学注意到。比如,班里选班干部,基本上都是比较外向的孩子能竞选上。这些孩子,和老师、同学都是“自来熟”那种,朋友会比较多。有些家长担心孩子内向会不会影响学习,我觉得不存在。班上成绩靠前,学习能力比较好的也并不都是外向的孩子,甚至内向的孩子还要多些。
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