An exaggerator doesn't know how to keep a small problem small. They often resort to saying things like, "You never did…" or "You have always been…" They don't take the time to consider steps you've taken to fix the problem or correct your mistake. To an exaggerator, every mistake feels like the end of the world.
这些总爱夸大事实的人特别喜欢把小问题搞得很严重,“你从没做过......”或者“你老是......”他们忽视你为解决问题或者纠正错误所做的努力。对于他们,任何错误都像是世界末日。
5、The Emotional Expresser
情绪化吐槽狂
The emotional expresser loves talking about feelings, but they never do this in a constructive way. This is the people who repeatedly tell you how bad something makes them feel, but never take any action to improve the bad situations.
情绪化吐槽狂超喜欢表达自己的情绪,但是却从来不会以一种积极的方式表达。这种人总是一而再再而三地告诉你,某件事让他们感到有多糟糕,但却不会付诸任何行动去改变这种不好的状况。
Any suggestion that you make for how they can improve their lives will be met with resistance. "I can't do that…" and "I've already tried that…" are responses that the emotional expresser will give to you when you challenge them to face their problems.
而且你给他们任何能够提高生活的建议都会被他们否决。而当你要他们去面对自己的问题时,他一般都会回答,“我做不了那个......”和“我已经那样试过了......”你有没有碰见过这样的人?
(来源:中国日报双语新闻编辑部)