在工作中，这种人一般都会在休息时间来找你，跟你疯狂吐槽另一个同事的表现。人们要是看见你和这种人一起，他们甚至也会给你贴上“爱八卦”的标签，谁让你老和这种有毒的人厮混在一起呢？
2、The Manipuator
操纵狂
A manipulator knows what they want, and they'll use you to get it. They don't care about your thoughts and feelings. It seems like the more time you spend with them, the less power you have over yourself. Stick around this person too long, and you’ll end up doing whatever they want。
操纵狂对自己想要啥清楚得很，他们会利用别人来达成目标。人家才不在乎你的想法和感受。貌似你与他们呆的越久，你对自己的掌控力就越低。要是和这种人呆久了的话，你最后就会完全听命于他们。
For example, I have a friend who is being in a toxic relationship. His girlfriend is controlling and abusive. Whenever he tries to leave, she fakes a health crisis to make him feel sorry for her. Since my friend is a nice guy, he sticks around and tries to make her feel better.
比如说，我有个朋友，他就处在一段特有毒的关系中。他女票很霸道，控制欲还很强。每当他试图离开时，他女票总会假装生病，让我朋友觉得有愧于她。我朋友就是人好，所以总是在她身边，让她感到开心。
3、The Judge
审判者
Regardless of what you say, think, or do, the judge will always have some criticism for you. The judge never tries to put themselves in your shoes. Their only concern is what you did or didn’t do. The more time you spend with them, the more depressed you’ll be. You can never make them happy.
不管你说啥、做啥或是想啥，审判者们都要批评你一番。这些爱评头论足的人从不会试着站在对方的角度思考。他们只关注你做了什么或没做什么。和他们呆的时间越久，你就会越沮丧。你永远也不能令他们满意。
4、The Exaggerator
夸大其词的人
