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做人做事做官再“十忌”
2017-08-10 16:25:03 中国青年网
六、失言、失态、失信是前程夭折的“后悔药”
人生在世少不了说话,但说什么、怎么说,不能随随便便,不可以信口开河。一个人在说话之前是话的主人,话说完后便成了话的奴隶,正所谓覆水难收。不是什么话都可以任性说,也不是什么场合、什么对象都能够随性说。“可与人言而不言,失人;不可言而与之言,失言。知者不失人,亦不失言。”有的人总是口无遮拦,甚至胡言乱语,结果祸从口出、失言“丧身”。失言是语言上的“出轨”,失态则是行动上的“失常”。失态的人失去的是身份、礼数和形象。人不应该失言,也不应该失态,更不应该失信。失信是一种食言。失言是乱说话,食言则是话乱说、说乱话,是说话不算数。说了不该说的话乃失言,做了不该做的事乃失态,而该说本该说的话却没说、该做本该做的事却没做乃失信,其结果都会让人生止步、前程夭折。
七、轻浮、轻率、轻信是自欺欺人的“休止符”
做人不可轻浮,做事不可轻率。轻浮之人,言行随便,对己不自重,对人不尊重,不稳重更不庄重,显得轻佻虚张。“浅近轻浮莫与交,地卑只解生荆棘。”轻浮之人,往往因为不自重而被人“看轻”,因为不尊重人而被人瞧不起。“闭眼睛想事情,拍脑袋作决策,拍胸脯打包票”,往往是轻率之人的习惯性动作。轻率的人经常想当然、凭感觉。轻率是草率、鲁莽的“一母同胞”,都是不负责任的表现,既对工作不负责,又对自己和他人不负责。轻信是轻浮和轻率的延伸,一个轻浮、轻率的人往往也是个轻易便会相信一切的人。有时多问几遍“为什么、凭什么、是什么”,想想天底下没有“免费的午餐”,不会“掉馅饼”,自然多一道自我保护的屏障。“慎重则必成,轻发则多败”,轻浮、轻率、轻信就是人生败局的“催化剂”。
八、尖酸、尖刻、尖锐是咄咄逼人的“放大器”
人当豁达大度,不可鸡肠小肚;当平和宽容,不可尖酸刻薄。然而,现实生活中经常会看到说话尖酸刻薄的人,他们爱奚落人,喜欢挑人的短处、毛病甚至隐私,冷嘲热讽、挖苦取笑,含沙射影、指桑骂槐,话里话外、字里行间带着刺儿。尖酸的话语、尖刻的态度伤人面又伤人心,让人尴尬难堪、无法忍受。这种人一般待人冷酷、凡事苛求,性格也比较孤僻、偏执。说话尖酸图的是自己嘴上一时的痛快,却被人心里一直痛恨。尖酸刻薄的人不受欢迎,难以相处。尖酸、尖刻、尖锐,锋芒毕露、咄咄逼人,是两头冒尖的匕首,既刺人又伤己。
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