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做人做事做官再“十忌”

2017-08-10 16:25:03   中国青年网

人的一生,不可能一直顺风顺水、平步青云,难免会碰到这样那样的挫折、不顺,甚至会遭遇“暗礁”,遭受“暴风骤雨”“腥风血雨”。面对失败怎么想、怎么办?有的人不堪一击、失落彷徨,有的人一溃千里、失望迷惘,有的人一蹶不振、失志沉沦,这些都是自暴自弃的表现。心理失落、失衡,往往是走极端和走下坡路的开始。一个人可以被击败,但不可以被击倒。人生路上有两件事是最值得骄傲的,一件是从成功中走出来,另一件是在失败中站起来。如果站起来的次数能够比跌倒的次数多一次,便是强者。人生的高度多是由跌倒的经历垫起来的。大凡成功者,其实成功的秘诀很简单,就是不怕失败、不忘失败。当一个人碰到困难、失败和过不去的坎时,不妨换一种人生思路,学会说“没关系”“不要紧”“有机会”。俗话说,“留得青山在,不怕没柴烧”,成功者告诉我们,只要精神不滑坡,办法总比困难多。古人云“三军可以夺帅也,匹夫不可夺志也”,如果志向、志气没了,那才是真正彻底地失败了。

四、空话、空虚、空洞是空白人生的“万花筒”

“空口说白话,眼饱肚子饥。”说空话是做人不实的表现。打空拳费力,说空话费神。说空话的人令人讨厌,常常忽悠人、糊弄人、吓唬人,往往上不着天下不着地。官话、套话、大话、假话是空话的面孔。常说空话,是做人空虚、做事空洞的表现。空虚是一种心态,源于没有信仰、无所寄托、失去支柱。当一个人整日不知道自己为什么活着、怎样活着,该干什么、怎么干时,也就只剩下一副皮囊,如同行尸走肉了。那样的人生百无聊赖、无所适从,于是乎,“今朝有酒今朝醉”,酗酒吸毒,醉生梦死。人最大的空虚莫过于回头看人生发现一片空白,没留下一点痕迹。“没劲”是空虚的“口头禅”,空虚常与无所事事相伴。空谈也罢、空虚也好,最终让自己的人生空洞无物、一事无成。

五、走神、走偏、走样是扭曲变形的“哈哈镜”

人的精力是有限的,干事业需要专心致志、心无旁骛,这样才能干一件成一件。人难免会走神,思想开小差,但得避免老走神、常走神、大走神,人的很多问题都是从思想跑偏、“抛锚”开始的。思想开小差,则必然带来为人处世走偏、言行举止走样。世间万物,有其轨、有其道,也就是常规常理,不可跑偏、不可逾越。走偏是走歪的开始,走样是走形的起步。不可小觑偶尔的走偏、走样,如果把握不住、控制不好,一旦让它成为一种常态,再纠正过来、扭转过来就难了。欲望太强的人必定会走形变样。正如人生的扣子,从第一粒就应该扣好,如果扣偏了、歪了,后面的也就跟着偏了、歪了。

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