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今年暑假 你把你家娃儿往外“撵”了吗?

2017-08-07 06:01:34   中国青年网

在家长看来,孩子平时是在学校专心学习,正好可以趁假期在人际交往、语言表达、沟通协调等能力上锻炼孩子,所以会有意识地提供机会,让孩子出去锻炼。出发点是很好的,但是,没有好的方法也不能解决问题。如果家长有意通过一些平台锻炼孩子的话,首先要尊重孩子的意愿和兴趣,毕竟父母最想要受益的是孩子。比如,家长有意让孩子去搞人际交往,而孩子平时比较内向,不善于语言交流,但动手能力很强,可以让孩子去科技馆等需要动手的场所,孩子可以从中学以致用,锻炼动手能力,中间也有和其他人的沟通;有的孩子擅长人际交往和语言表达,如果你把他带到美术馆等比较安静、需要用心感受的地方,就没法和孩子的个性进行对接;喜欢唱歌、表演的孩子,可以让他去接触川剧等传统艺术,都是很好的。总之,家长应该根据孩子的实际情况和兴趣点,在这些方向上进行引导,这样,孩子对于出门这件事才不会明显抗拒。

还有一点,不建议家长不分青红皂白,直接“撵”孩子出门,尤其是处于青春期的孩子。如果家长硬来,多数孩子大概会强硬表态:“我就不出去了!”建议家长应该学会“共情”,类似于换位思考,站在孩子的角度,谈一下对孩子感受的认知,比如跟孩子说:“你待在家里这么久了,可能也很想出去,但是出去了又不知道要去哪儿,也不知道怎么去和别人打交道,更不知道到底要干些什么……”这就是“共情”。这样,孩子会觉得父母很理解自己的感觉、顾虑,后续的沟通就会比较顺利。

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