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“不听话让警察抓你” 吓唬式教育不应再传代

2017-08-06 10:08:49   中国经济网

对此,家长应该客观告诉孩子警察的作用、任务,明确哪些事可以找警察,哪些事找家长,哪些事自己做,训练孩子分辨事物和处理问题的能力。家长要提升教育能力,增强教育智慧,培养处理问题的策略和技巧、方法,承担起教育责任,用耐心、爱心、恒心培养孩子。家长不要用简单、粗暴方式对待孩子,更不要在教育中信口开河误导孩子,避免给孩子带来早期伤害而影响未来人生。

重庆市心理咨询师协会秘书长 童新

学会求助并非是处处依赖

家庭教育是学校教育和社会教育的基础,日常生活中,我们经常碰见家长采取两种极端的教育方法,其实都有失偏颇。

第一种教育方式是利用警察恐吓管束孩子,或者利用老师吓唬孩子,这种教育方式容易让孩子对警察或老师产生惧怕心理。我们经常遇到这样的孩子,比如受同学欺负了却不敢告诉老师,怕老师会批评自己;学习上遇到不会的知识也不敢求助老师,最后影响学习。

而另一种教育方式则是不论遇到什么问题,都可以求助警察求助老师。校园里,有的学生遇到完全可以自己解决的小事也找老师。比如,铅笔断了找老师,橡皮丢了找老师,其实这些问题完全可以自己想办法解决。

如果家长将孩子遇到的问题都抛给老师,孩子就会缺乏独立,遇到问题不主动自觉思考解决方法,容易产生依赖心理,这对孩子的独立发展并不利。

全国青年教师教学大赛一等奖获得者 高希连

家长尽量不要借助警察的角色来教育孩子,应耐心地与孩子一起面对问题。首先,耐心地听孩子讲述遇到的问题,耐心地观察孩子可能遇到的问题;其次,家长应该与孩子一起面对问题分析问题,明辨是非,分清轻重,什么情况下是需要帮助,而什么情况下是需要自己想办法解决;什么样的事情是社会或学校不允许的、会受到惩罚的,什么事情是社会或学校所允许或者鼓励的;最后,家长应该用自己的实际行动影响孩子,家长在遇到问题时是如何处理的,孩子一定会模仿,因此家长在处理问题时应该积极妥善,对孩子既有言传也有身教,这样的家庭教育才是完整的。

总之,家长要担负起家庭教育的首要责任,教会孩子明辨是非,主动想办法解决问题,家长有耐心才会给孩子安全的心理和更好的家庭教育。

全国优质课大奖赛获奖者 董龙龙

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