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别再拿警察“吓唬”孩子了
2017-08-07 01:31:50 中国青年网
本报记者鹿道铭
据《法制日报》报道:近日,重庆市巴南区花溪派出所民警在工作中发现一名疑似走失的小女孩,然而当民警上前准备询问时,出人意料的一幕发生了,小女孩竟突然哇哇大哭起来:“警察叔叔,我没有做坏事,你别抓我好吗!”随后转身就跑。后来,在女民警的耐心询问下得知,由于女孩父母经常对她说“如果不听话就让警察来抓你”,女孩从小就对穿警服的民警充满恐惧。
“让警察叔叔把你抓走”“不好好学习以后就扫大街”……这些话语恐怕是很多人儿时常常听到也最害怕听到的。父母及长辈们用极具震慑力的话语标榜自己的权威,殊不知在无形之中扭曲了警察、环卫工人等职业,传递了错误的价值观,而刻意塑造的脸谱化、妖魔化形象以及某些带有片面、歧视性色彩的语言,不仅不会起到一定的教育作用,反而会适得其反,给孩子的心理留下阴影。
事实上,在孩子走失的案例中,有孩子主动向警察求助的并不多见。这一方面,可能是由于孩子一时惊惶失措;而另一方面,也与家长长期对孩子的误导不无关联。警察在人们的心目中应该是匡扶正义、为人民群众服务的形象,父母长辈们用这种错误的方式来震慑、吓唬孩子,会让孩子的恐惧心理、紧张情绪不断叠加,长此以往,只要看到警察就会莫名感到惧怕,哪怕当孩子遇到困难甚至危险时,都不敢向警察求助。
我们可以看到,过去那种老一套的“吓唬式教育”已然不适应当下社会环境,滋生出了许多问题和矛盾。新一代的父母们想要在孩子面前树立威信,不能再靠借助警察等人们公认的职业形象来吓唬孩子了。家长们应及时纠正自己简单粗暴的不当行为,不要在教育中信口开河误导孩子,而是应教会孩子明辨是非和处理紧急情况的能力,还要明确告知孩子:哪些事可以找警察,哪些事应该找家长,哪些事只能自己做。
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