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孩子学习不好,怎么办

2017-08-05 16:02:26   中国青年网

提问:孩子不爱学习,学习不好,怎么办?

李峥嵘:我能体会到家长巨大的焦虑。我认为仅仅按照考试成绩来判断一个孩子的学习能力是不公平的,没有考虑到个体的差异和才能的多元,更忽视了个人的努力。一个家境贫寒的孩子想考到和一个教授的孩子一样的成绩,势必要付出更大的努力。考试成绩不好不等于学习不好,更不等于没有学习能力。什么叫作学习能力?就是没有人要你考试,你还愿意自己去探索、去发现和解决问题。

比如一个小朋友考试总是最后一名,但是他很喜欢做饭,元旦的时候还烤了蛋糕带来参加庆祝活动。你能说这是一个不爱学习、没有学习能力的孩子吗?

这样的孩子在现在的评价体系里可能不讨老师喜欢,也许不会考上重点学校,但和漫长的人生比起来,小学考试成绩又算得了什么呢?家长要有勇气对抗单一的评价标准。

我很喜欢古希腊神话中安泰的故事, 安泰是大地之子,他每一次被对手摔倒在地上,大地母亲都能给他源源不断的力量,他每一次摔倒反而变得更加强大。后来赫拉克勒斯将安泰举到空中,使他无法从母亲那里获取力量,最后把他扼死了。

孩子天生是学习者,如果他们惧怕困难,连走路都学不会。为什么变得不爱学习了?是什么阻碍了他的成长?当你的孩子遇到困难,你是给他力量的大地之母还是把他远远推开?

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