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揭秘北京公园相亲故事 父母操碎心只为儿女早日“脱单”

2017-07-13 08:29:08   

老人们几乎人手一个布兜子,一把塑料扇子。布兜子上大多印着居委会的安全提示,或者房产中介的广告;塑料扇子上则是“妇幼医院”、“幼儿培训”之类机构送的。他们几乎都是乘公交或地铁而来,自带水壶,但在挑选门当户对的亲家时,却一点都不将就。

偶尔有年轻人从眼前走过,只要看上去符合自己的预期,老人就会停下手中的扇子,从板凳上欠起身来半蹲着,目光也从刚才的呆滞突然变得和善,瞪大眼睛,直直地盯着年轻人看上三四秒钟。哪怕小伙子的眼神有点闪烁,老人也会赶紧问上一句:“小伙子,你多大啦?”

直到年轻人摆摆手,留下一句“我是来旅游的”,老人才又慢慢坐下,眼里满是失望。

也有些老人的脸皮薄,不愿意坐在地上摆摊,只是手攥着纸板走来走去。只要是在公园的相亲角范围内,老人们都是心照不宣。两位老人的目光对上了,第一句话总是:“您的,是男孩女孩?”

老人们占据了很大一块长方形区域,几乎不会有导游把游客带到这里,老人们也严守界限。有挎着相机的散客闯入,就会被老人们“斥责”:“你不找对象,上这儿干嘛来,你出去出去。”

偏僻的地点

和老人的脸面

在北京的几大公园里,常年存在着这种相亲会,其中以中山公园的规模为最大。几处公园相亲会的时间相互岔开,除了周二,其余的日子天天都有,即使春节期间也不间断。

公园相亲会的地点也有些讲究,并不在公园最核心的区域,往往都在比较偏僻、却又不太难找的地方。天坛公园的七星石畔,不在天坛的主流游览路线上,无论从东门还是南门进园都不会直接走到。陶然亭公园的东码头旁长廊,也是同样道理,一般游客找不到。中山公园的格言亭,在公园的最北边,游客从南门进园,几乎走不到那里。

没有老人能说清楚为什么是这样的地点,因为即使是来得最早的,也不过两三个月而已。只要给孩子找到对象了,就再也不想来了。而这些相亲会已经存在了几年甚至十几年了。不过,老人们都很认同这些约定俗成的地点,虽然已经舍下脸面来“摆摊”给孩子找对象,但还是不想让游客看来看去,更不想让外国游客拍照。

老王已经连续几个周日来中山公园,但一直没有找到合适的。她刚过六十岁,老家在东北。女儿大学毕业后留在北京,从事法律方面的工作。几年下来,事业小有成就。老王想念女儿,每隔几个月就来看看女儿,帮着做做饭,收拾一下屋子。

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