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看了电影《摔跤吧,爸爸》,竟让几家人闹翻了

2017-05-30 12:21:15   

看,不同的家庭,不同的出身,不同的视角,就有不同的评价。但这还没有完,三个家庭还在激烈的辩论中,谁也无法说服谁。

小张爸爸:这是经典且成功的一个职业规划案例,从结果来看,父亲收获了梦寐以求的世界冠军,并最终得到了两个女儿的完全认可,电影的最后,父女三人拥抱在一起,就说明了这是一个成功的团队,而两个女儿不仅改变了14岁就嫁人的命运,还先后获得国家级冠军和世界冠军。

小李妈妈:世界冠军在全球只有屈指可数的几位。如果可行性只有1%或者更低,我们还认为这是合理的职业规划吗?固然两个女儿有摔跤的天赋,也有足够优秀的教练资源,但有天赋就一定能成为冠军吗?如果不能获得冠军,等待两个女儿的将是何等冰冷的现实,再去嫁人还会有人要吗?

小顾妈妈:你看这个父亲,多么残暴啊,在没有任何保护措施的情况下,把女儿仍进冰冷的河水!在训练中,就如一个恶魔,哪有父亲的亲情,有的只是他自己的所谓的追求!任何一次的冒险训练,都有可能导致女儿的夭折或者伤残,你们不觉得结果的成功只是一个小概率事件吗?不能因为他的固执坚持,就逼着女儿去实现他的梦想吧。

小顾爸爸:更关键的是,这个爸爸根本就没有用合理的方式对待女儿,把他的梦想融入女儿的目标之中,有的只是他的不断逼迫。女儿的妥协还是在参加了朋友的婚宴之后,一种无奈的妥协,或者说对于现实的妥协。我们可以假设一下,如果不去摔跤,而是把她女儿送到学校继续读书,难道就一定不可以吗?平淡也是一种幸福啊。如果用近三十年的恶魔般的训练,只为改变自己的命运,那么,有几位真正爱自己子女的父亲,能够狠下心来呢?所以,这个父亲是个恶魔。

小张妈妈:你们太偏激了,也太强调自我的感受了,不敢去挑战自己!这个父亲难道没有陪着她们一起成长吗?这个父亲难道没有给她们世界级的教练辅导吗?你们看到了吗,这个父亲在所谓的残暴中还是有很多温情的,比如:把女儿成长的轨迹都编辑成纪念册了,为了女儿不被开除,委屈地道歉,这要多深沉的爱!对女儿职业发展的实现路径不仅设计了,而且还强力地辅导她们成功了。这些,还不能说明问题吗?至于,小概率的问题,这个是一个相对的问题,任何目标都需要我们去克服一些必然的困难,需要我们“渡劫”,如果连勇气都没有,连尝试的过程都没有,怎么可能会成功?挫折、挑战,这本来就是迈向成功的必然过程!

小张爸爸:所以嘛,这位父亲不仅为女儿们点拨了职业发展之路,在发掘她们的天赋之后,再给她们知识、技能和人格的教练辅导,在过程中还不断地根据具体情况调整短期目标,坚定中有变通,配得上现实中经典的职业规划案例。

辩论依然激烈,但是大家都无法说服对方。

读者朋友们,你们如何看待这部片子中的父亲呢,是“暴君”还是伟大的“爱父”?您可在文尾留言栏中,把您的观点与大家分享。

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