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老人带娃,真的不容易啊!

2017-05-20 19:03:34   

我看着这群被孩子,以及孩子的孩子拖累,不得不舍弃原有生活,像候鸟一样迁徙于不同城市间的老人,心里很难过。

凭什么他们的时间,他们的生命要这样奉献掉,牺牲掉呢?

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有人将生命用天数加以计算,一个人的生命大约包含着三万天。有不少的文章用三万天来告诫大家人生苦短,尽量让人生随心。

有些妈妈,比如以前的我,看到这样的文章,会想:“天啊,我的生命只有三万天,我这都过了很多了,接下来的时间里我要对自己好一点。”

三万天的生命,留给老人比留给我们的更少。他们辛苦一辈子,最后的一些时间还要被孩子占用,这是否合理呢?

我的妈妈当过知青,上山下乡,后来开始工作,上了几十年的班,还养大了我。好不容易她退休了,可以有时间去做她以前想做而没有时间去做的事情。

而为了我和我的孩子,她的退休生活是在一栋高层住宅楼的单元套房里守着,当起了保姆。

难道这是应该的吗?

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我不同意。

最简单的道理。人需要为自己的选择负责。你既然选择了生出这个孩子,那么抚养的责任只能在你。

那些生完孩子就做甩手掌柜的年轻父母,以上班辛苦为理由,每天回家来做的事情却都是在家玩游戏玩手机,任由老人洗衣做饭带孩子。

可怜老人一把年纪,又照顾儿辈又照顾孙辈,还常常被指责做事做不好。这样坐享其成的年轻人,会不会扪心自愧呢?

固然,的确有很多年轻人,生活在一线城市,压力大,生活节奏紧张,顾不上家和孩子,他们背负着客观而现实的压力,不得不求助于家乡的老人。

那么是否也需要铭记一点,那就是替我们照顾孩子,不是老人的义务,是老人在帮你,他们牺牲自己的生活在帮你,应该感恩

我相信每个人都有追求自己梦想生活的权利,没有人的付出和牺牲是理所应当。

照顾孙子,其实并不是老人的义务,他是在帮自己的孩子。而这么做,只是出于爱。他们也有想要的生活,想做的事情。可能老人带孩子,真的会有一些矛盾,但请不要忘记了,老人们是在用所剩无几的生命帮你!

老人带孩子,只是因为他的爱,分享出去,感恩爸妈的不容易。

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