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七夕到了,为何你还是单身?答案扎心了……

2017-08-28 13:41:23   中国青年网

我国单身人口约2亿,你的对象在路上了吗?

2016年8月6日,浙江省杭州市,七夕情人节前夕,四个西装革履高大帅气的小鲜肉出现在杭州某购物城,给在商场里的情侣送上玫瑰花。(许康平/人民图片)

据统计,目前我国的单身人口约2亿,已相当于俄罗斯和英国人口的总和,国内几个主流相亲网站的注册会员人数均已破亿。有舆论认为,新一轮的“单身潮”正在到来。

今年4月,中共中央、国务院印发《中长期青年发展规划(2016—2025年)》,希望工会、共青团、妇联等群团组织和社会组织关注青年婚恋,这个规划也被网友称为“中央发话为你找对象啦”。而后,各地团委组织的各种相亲活动陆续开展,共青团浙江省委牵头的“‘亲青恋’2017相亲大会”就吸引到5000多名单身男女报名参加。

内有亲友邻里热心张罗,外有同学聚会公司联谊,闲时还能通过社交软件自助交友,有如此多的“脱单”机会,为什么还有那么多人找不到对象呢?

李先生认为,自我设限越多,对象越难找。“不管男方女方,应该重新审视一下自己的要求。一定要正确看待自己,也要正确看待别人。”

刘先生认为经济压力也是重要原因之一,“现在房价涨的这么快,工资一点都没涨,自己都养不起了,还能养两个吗?单身是生活所迫。”

“因为互联网的发展,让大家不出门也能满足自己的社交需求,交朋友的场合比较少,所以就剩下了。”王小姐认为,现代生活方式反而让社交圈变得越来越小。

导致年轻人单身的五类原因

恋爱的原因都很相似,但单身却各有各的理由。中国人民解放军总医院第一附属(304)医院心身医学门诊主任彭国球表示,当下导致年轻人单身的原因很复杂,总结起来主要有以下五类原因:

“学习使我快乐”

有些人在上学期间埋头苦学,没有时间谈恋爱或者自己不想谈恋爱,等到离开校园进入社会后,又一头钻进繁忙的工作中,因而耽误了谈恋爱。

想先提升自己

随着社会的进步和生活成本的加大,男女双方在恋爱中对对方的要求变得越来越高,相貌、身材、事业、性格、爱好等都成为了挑选伴侣的标准。在这种情况下,有些人会选择先提升自己,等到自己拥有足够的条件再去追求幸福。

“一朝被蛇咬,十年怕井绳”

因此原因而害怕恋爱的人分为两种,第一种是有过恋爱经验,但最后都以分手而告终,他们的精神或肉体受到过伤害,悲惨的感情经历让他们不想再恋爱,因此放弃再次恋爱的机会;第二种是了解到身边人悲惨的恋爱经历后,自己因害怕受到伤害而对恋爱产生了恐惧,拒绝恋爱。

想做“单身贵族”

有些人喜欢自由自在、无牵无挂的生活方式,讨厌被束缚,享受单身的生活,因此不会去谈恋爱。

将偶像作为标准寻求伴侣

有些人对感情有着自己的期待和标准,但他们的期待与标准与现实生活相差甚远。互联网拉近了人与人的距离,让优秀的人得以被大众熟知并成为很多人的偶像,有些人会将偶像的优点作为择偶的标准,但在现实生活中,遇到偶像那种类型的人并与其建立恋爱关系的概率很低,因此这也成为了一类人单身的原因。

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