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“半个”好人
2017-09-05 07:36:42 中国青年网
○朱 辉
做好事通常会被点赞,这也是人们愿意做好事的动力之一。不过有时做好事不仅鲜有人点赞,还备受指责。比如我们在小区里喂流浪猫,常有人指桑骂槐,说我们有病。这其中某些人在公共绿化带非法种菜,嫌流浪猫破坏了他们的菜地,另有一些觉得猫叫扰民。他们似乎忘了前几年流浪猫稀少的时候,大白天都能看到老鼠成群结队四处溜达。
花钱费精力还挨骂,有些喂猫者觉得很闹心,多一事不如少一事,不喂了。坚持下来的,到了每年夏天又会遇到难题。学校放假了,一些“熊孩子”常常用玩具枪、石块袭击流浪猫,有一回几个“熊孩子”甚至挖掉了一只幼猫的双眼,极其残忍。于是有人训斥阻止“熊孩子”,然而“熊孩子”身后往往有“熊爸爸”“熊妈妈”,冷不丁就冲出来护犊子,骂人甚至撸袖子想干架。几次三番遇到这种事,大多数流浪猫救助者就不再去招惹“熊孩子”了。我这人平日最怕与人扯皮,然而想到只喂猫却不保护它们,前面的事等于白干了。于是硬着头皮当“恶人”,对于“熊孩子”该呵斥就呵斥,“熊爸”“熊妈”要吵架,就告诉他们如此护短,将来“熊孩子”长大成人,他们自己会成为最大的受害者……
花钱、花精力做好事,许多人都愿意尝试。可是做好人的同时得做“恶人”,与人冲突,这却是多数人不愿惹的麻烦。
我大哥是远近闻名的孝子,近年来父亲身体大不如前。大哥坐十几站公交车,两三天去父亲家一次,彻底颠覆了“久病床前无孝子”的俗话。由于花钱甚多,大嫂、侄儿都颇有怨言,但大哥顶住压力,该花就花,该出力还出力。不过有件事大哥很为难,眼看父母身体状况越来越差,平时就不务正业的二哥心急火燎地想谋得两老的拆迁款。父母今后几年很可能还会得大病,到时候医疗费到哪儿去筹?指望父母不犯糊涂,看来不太可能。让大哥把住关,守住父母的养命钱,他又是个一团和气,不肯与人红脸的人。于是我又只得硬着头皮当“恶人”,提出必须预留父母住10年中档养老院的钱,父母尚在,谁也别学猪八戒想把“行李”分了……
做好人与“得罪人”,两者听起来有些违和感,可在生活中,常常紧密相连。无论当个爱心人士还是孝子,仅有奉献精神往往不够,有时避免不了要与人发生激烈冲突。如果心理上过不了这一关,只能唱红脸,不能唱白脸,最后便只能当“半个”好人。而“半个”好人,常常做不成一件完整的好事。
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