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爱子护短不如教子补短
2017-08-23 04:16:32 中国青年网
刘春鹏
近日,长沙的柏女士带着5个月的女儿打疫苗,打完之后孩子哭闹不止,柏女士便对孩子进行哺乳。哺乳期间,一名6岁左右的小男孩冲进了留观室,拿起手机对着柏女士拍照。柏女士的婆婆追上男孩后,小孩的奶奶也赶了过来,说对方吓到她的孙子了,孙子只有五六岁,什么都不懂。随后双方就此事产生了争吵,而在现场围观的人也劝柏女士,让她“没必要较真,只是小孩子不懂事”,柏女士感到很委屈。最终,小男孩的家长将手机拍摄的照片删除。
(据《潇湘晨报》)
“小孩子不懂事”似乎已经成了家长护短的万能辩词。孩子犯了错,家长不耐心地讲道理,不及时地指正,要面子护短只会让孩子失去“里子”,将孩子往漠视规则的路上又推了一把,孩子是非标准的认知也会越来越模糊。《朱子家训》中有“堂前教子”的格言,意思是说如果孩子犯了错误,家长可以在大庭广众之下教育孩子,见短及时补短,以免下次不会再犯。孩子是小,正是因为小,才容易养成习惯,形成对规矩的尊重,才容易在模仿与观察中形成正确的是非观。小是塑造人格修养的优势,而不是骄纵其肆无忌惮的借口。
男童拍照可能只是单纯的好奇或者好玩,但也折射出性教育的缺失。6岁孩子已经到了认识性别的阶段,应该有起码的性别意识,应该知道哪些事是能做的,哪些是不能做的,这不仅是对他人的尊重,更是对孩子自身的保护。对于不断曝光的未成年人被性侵猥亵事件,打击加害者可以减少被性侵和猥亵,但是教育的意义更为重要,事前的认知其实是减少甚至避免被性侵和猥亵的极为重要的方法。除了完善未成年人免受性侵的保障机制,更需要家长把性教育纳入到孩子日常教育的日程中,让其知道身体禁区和自我保护措施,让孩子的人生多一份保护少一块短板。
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