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依赖爸妈的她在爱尔兰留学5年

2017-08-18 05:58:08   中国青年网

笑容甜美的戴明,笑起来总会露出她那洁白的牙齿,给人一种很阳光、很温暖的感觉。从小受到爸妈的宠爱,所以她特别地依赖爸妈。不过,超恋家的她可没一直待在爸妈的身边,而是独自一人去了爱尔兰留学,而且一呆就是5年。

想象很美好,现实很艰苦

谈起当初留学的原因,戴明有些不好意思地告诉笔者,高中的时候觉得学习压力实在是太大了,特别是高三的高考冲刺阶段,压得她喘不过气来。所以,为了缓解压力,她义无反顾地选择了去爱尔兰留学。“我爸妈当时也不同意我出国的,特别是得知我独自一人去国外留学,没人照顾我,他们根本不放心。但是,在我的软磨硬泡下,最终他们也只能默许了。”

在大多数人的印象中,留学生活应该是美好而又充满无限乐趣的:能接触到国外多元的文化,能接受到先进的教育模式,能领略到别样的异国风情,还能品尝到当地特色的美食……戴明当初也是这么遥想她出国留学后的美好生活的,以为在国外就可以展开一种不一样的新生活。但是,等她真正到了爱尔兰之后,发现实际情况好像并不是这样的。

“留学是条艰辛路,留学生活远没有想象中的那么有趣而美好,其中的酸甜苦辣,只有自己亲身去体会过了才会懂。本来想着出国的学习生活可以让自己轻松点,但在留学的这几年里,我觉得付出的努力和辛苦却远远超过了在国内的生活。特别是语言方面的问题,我的英语基础并不是很好,而且爱尔兰本身也有自己的口音,所以,现在还清晰地记得在爱尔兰留学时的第一节课我就完全蒙圈了,根本听不懂老师在讲什么,也不知道自己该干什么。语言的沟通和理解障碍,让上课压力变得很大。并且老外也远远比我想象中的难相处,也许是因为文化、思想方面的差异,一般和他们是没有什么共同话题可以聊的。记得我第一次写小组论文时,想要加入当地学生的小组,但是结果是直接被拒绝。不过,随着时间的推移,等你慢慢适应了,这些情况都会得到改善的。”

论文很繁琐,要讨论还要演讲

除了语言问题,还有一个学习方面的问题是戴明比较头痛的,那就是论文。

“我留学期间大学本科读的是热门专业会计,研究生则选择了国际贸易专业。在本科和研究生这两个阶段内,我都比较害怕论文。不知道是我选择专业的问题,还是国外本来就是这样的教学模式,要写的论文真的是多而繁杂。完成这些论文需要我花费很多的时间,选题、调查、研究、分析……更可怕的是,论文不仅有个人论文,还有小组论文,而且不同形式的论文所要求的写作方式也完全不同。尤其是小组论文,总是需要小组组员之间的互相合作,如果小组内全是中国学生,论文的沟通合作还是比较轻松的。但是,如果小组里需要和外国学生一起合作,那完成论文的过程就会变得很吃力了。他们会有很多很多开不完的小组会议,有时真的会只为了PPT里某一字体的颜色而展开激烈的讨论。说实在的,我个人是很反感这样的问题的,为了一个小细节就花费那么多时间去讨论,有些小题大做。也许真的是思维方式的不同吧,反正我是不能理解这种行为的。”

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