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彰显自我当有度
2017-08-10 16:13:39 中国青年网
我们正处在一个彰显自我、张扬个性的时代。
在一些人的人生字典里,写满了自我设计、自我奋斗和自我实现的主题词;在他们工作、学习和生活的轨迹里,标满了自我夸张、放飞个性的关键词。应该说,彰显自我较之过去是一种进步。曾几何时,人们迷失了自我,耻于或者惧怕谈自我。于是乎,自我被淹没在了茫茫人海里,甚至连穿衣戴帽都“大一统”,一片“灰蓝色”,满眼“中山装”, 人们似乎都是一个模子里刻出来的,千人一面,缺少了个性,缺失了人性。若真有区分的话,要么“高大全”,不食人间烟火;要么“标签脸”“一看就是坏人”。
然而,当人们渐渐走出自我迷失的“雾霾天”后,似乎又有些矫枉过正,走进了自我膨胀的“阴雨天”。不少人以尊重自我为由放大自我,以实现自我为由标榜自我,以崇尚自我为由膨胀自我,一味地设计起“自我成长”的路线图,于是乎,在不同程度上又让自我走入了另一个“窄胡同”乃至“死胡同”。一些人从狭隘的自我出发,变得自私自利、利欲熏心,变得自以为是、自高自大。很多场合或很多时候,他们取得一点成绩,便把功劳全记在自己头上;有了一点进步,则满口都是自己多么劳苦功高;面对鲜花和掌声时,他们更是飘飘然,忘乎所以。此时,“我”的眼里已经没有了他人,看不见团队和集体,更少了群众和组织,充其量嘴上不痛不痒来句“感谢我的父母和家人”云云。
彰显自我无可厚非,表现自我无可指责。没有自我这一个体的良好发育,哪来社会群体的健康发展?自我意识的自觉和自省,是社会走向文明开放的晴雨表,也是社会多元、包容和成熟的温度计。古希腊哲学家赫拉克利特有句名言:“太阳每天都是新的。”一棵树上的每一片树叶都是不一样的。彰显自我、实现自我实质上是张扬人的个性、挖掘人的潜质的必然选择和必经之路。社会应当鼓励承认自我、塑造自我和打造自我,更应该鼓励不断完善自我、战胜自我和超越自我。
彰显自我当有度。张扬自我可以,但放大自我不可取。放大自我便是放纵自己,让自我如脱缰的野马一路狂飙;放大自我便是放弃自己,是自以为是的起点、故步自封的开端。惯于以自我为中心的人,注定成不了别人的中心;惯于心中只有“小我”的人,必定是一个缺失大格局、缺乏大境界、缺少大情怀的人,也必定走不远、行不稳、飞不高。
彰显自我但不放大自我,才不会被茫茫人海所淹没,也不会被滔滔欲望所吞噬。(本文由《秘书工作》杂志提供,刊于2017年第6期,如需转载请与版权方联系)
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