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“父母爱显摆”

2017-08-09 07:05:54   中国青年网

先来看看几位市民对“父母爱显摆”的抱怨:我妈总是在左邻右舍面前显摆我和妹妹有出息,其实我和妹妹就是工薪阶层;我父母总是说我最孝顺了,太夸张了,我没他们说的那么好。综合来看,很多为人子女者认为“父母爱显摆”给自己造成了“压力山大”,感到挺苦恼的。

是的,对于子女而言,“父母爱显摆”确实会在一个层面加大心理压力。但是就此得出“父母爱显摆”是一种病也有点小题大做了。父母显摆自己的儿女有出息,未必就是不切实际、虚张声势的。孩子是父母眼里的宝贝,尽管你自己以为自己没有出息,但是在父母的心里,你却是最有出息的。其实,父母对于子女的要求并不高,他们所说的“儿女有出息”,不一定是赚大钱,当大官,而是能过上幸福、平淡的生活。所以,“父母爱显摆”,只要不是杜撰故事,只要不是夸大事实,就不算是多么大的问题。这倒是让我们看到了“父母爱显摆”中的幸福满足感。

对于“父母爱显摆”,我们需要理智面对,其实这何尝不是父母的一种诉求?“父母爱显摆”的内容都是:儿女可孝顺了,经常关注自己的健康问题;儿女最知冷知热了,经常回家看看自己……这其实是对孝道的诉求,对天伦之乐的诉求。作为子女不应该只是抱怨“父母爱显摆”,只要老人因此高兴了,因此幸福了,因此满足了,我们何不“无则加勉有则改之”呢?

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