新闻
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China

如何面对孩子心理断奶期

2017-08-08 05:34:55   中国青年网

王方方

来自周口市的晓明今年20岁,她已经让家人头疼三年多了。三年前,晓明还是个乖乖女,学习好,性格好。但是后来晓明渐渐变了,她总认为自己是对的、别人是错的,常常和同学、老师发生争执,直到最后不愿读书,辍学在家。在家里,晓明常常因为一点小事就大发雷霆,父母分析后认为,可能是平时对晓明要求太严,让她产生了逆反心理,所以,他们决定送晓明去国外读书,让她自由一些。

可是,当晓明回国过暑假时,她仍然脾气暴躁,对父母百般刁难。无助的晓明妈妈只好寻求医生的帮助。郑州市第八人民医院副院长胡雄及时给予其指导。

心理断奶期处理不当 叛逆情绪会加重

胡雄说,一般情况下,孩子在成长过程中,有一个心理发育过渡期,叫心理断奶期。一般发生在十三四岁,早一点在十一二岁,晚一点在十六七岁,发生早晚跟父母教育方式、生活环境及孩子心理发育速度有关。

胡雄说,处在心理断奶期的孩子,直接的表现就是逆反,他们觉得自己长大了,该有主见了,认为自己聪明,能独立完成一些事情,于是开始标新立异,遇到事情要提出自己的建议。

这其实是一个正常的心理过程,如果父母、老师或朋友能够对其有较好的引导,鼓励他,告诉他“你行的”,孩子的心理需求得到适当满足,一般两三年以后,父母会发现孩子不再跟自己较劲了,变得懂事了。

但是如果父母处理不当,其叛逆情绪就会更加严重,叛逆期也会延长。

双向情绪障碍 孩子内心很痛苦

胡雄认为,晓明已经20岁了,她的表现已经不是单纯的叛逆,应该考虑为双向情感障碍(又称钟摆病),所谓双向,包括狂躁和抑郁两个方面。

孩子抑郁的时候,不愿意说,家人观察不到,但有时又会表现得很叛逆,比如不愿意去上学,不愿意跟人交流,爱发脾气,容易跟人产生矛盾等。

有些孩子能意识到自己的情绪变化,会适当控制情绪,但有些孩子常常不分场合乱发脾气,对于后者,可能需要药物干预,比如情绪稳定剂,合理服用对孩子情绪的稳定有帮助。

胡雄表示,他接触过很多像晓明这样的孩子,他们的内心经常有空虚感、无力感,同时又感到急躁不安,想找一点刺激,发脾气是他们缓解内心矛盾情感的一种方式,其实他们自己也感到非常痛苦。

上一页1/2下一页
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China

相关阅读

404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
分享到:
0 0
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China

美图推荐

404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China

为您推荐

加载更多>>
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China
404 Not Found

404 Not Found

Sorry for the inconvenience.
Please report this message and include the following information to us.
Thank you very much!

URL: http://3g.china.com:8080/act/news/11038989/20170808/31051190.html
Server: cms-8-252
Date: 2024/11/05 14:46:16

Powered by China
China