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朋友圈频繁晒娃,你怎么看
2017-08-04 07:31:28 中国青年网
在成长的过程中,绝大多数人可能都经历过父母口中“别人家孩子”的“摧残”,考试、比赛、测试,一次又一次的成绩比较贯穿着整个学生时代。在微信风靡之后,新一代的家长们又纷纷踏入了朋友圈“晒娃”的步伐,三好学生证书、学科竞赛获奖证书、才艺比赛获奖证书等无不可晒,而此中滋味自然是有人欢喜亦有人忧。
大部分的中国父母都有着“望子成龙”“望女成凤”最朴素、最深刻的愿景,那么晒娃和与“别人家孩子”的攀比也就不足为奇了。然而有专家指出,在盲目攀比孩子的背后,反映的是家长的焦虑和懒惰。人生的输赢不在一时,让孩子过于负重,不如与之一起成长,做个快乐的普通人也未尝不可。
李先生:视而不见的教育最可贵
微信风靡后,一些家长乐于在朋友圈“晒娃”,只要孩子有丁点的成绩,都会瞬间“好事传千里”,或“晒成功教育”“晒孩子优势”,或借助旁人的赞美,树立孩子的荣誉感等。
“儿子班上有一名次次考第一的学生,有一次在等孩子放学时,我碰到了这位学生的家长,便与他交谈起来。在讲到育儿经验时,他说的一句话让我感悟很深,‘他从小学习都很优秀,我都知道。但无论他取得成绩,或者遇到问题,一般我都假装看不见,除非感觉到他需要我表扬或批评的时候,否则我不会刻意去表扬他,或是批评他,因为他自己有消化功能。’”李先生说,他很赞同这位父亲的教育方法,古语云“数子十过,不如奖子一长”。教育孩子的时候施以赞美,本无可厚非。但是,过多的表扬对孩子的成长是不利,这容易让孩子滋生骄傲心理,无法面对失败。
李先生告诉笔者,他一个同学的女儿文文静静的,成绩都是年级前十,家里人一直也引以为豪。“上次期末考试,她考了年级第20名,成绩出来之后,她直接晕倒了。也许是因为周围人对她的期望很高,一直以来,她学习也很刻苦,面对这样的成绩,她一时接受不了。”李先生说,其实无论是和风细雨,还是狂风暴雨,都是自然现象,都应该让孩子自己去经历。无论面对孩子的成功或失败,都应该先等一等,看一看,让孩子有自己独立的思考时间,不要用大人的想法去影响他的思维,让他失去了经历的机会。这样“视而不见”的教育,更显智慧和可贵。
李女士:朋友圈“晒娃”,无须过多解读
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