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老人带娃,真的不容易啊!

2017-05-20 19:03:34   

虽然孩子由父母自己带大会比较好,但由于现实所迫,很多家庭不得不让爷爷奶奶帮忙带孩子,导致了很多矛盾的发生。

但看了这篇文章,才发现老人也并不容易。

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妞妞姥姥在我休完产假开始上班之后就来帮我照看妞妞,留姥爷一人在老家继续上班。

有一次,姥爷手机没电,和朋友外出骑行了。姥姥联系不上他,担心他出事,在房间里来回走动,坐立不安。我那时候还和她开玩笑,说道:“我爸这么大的人了,估计没带手机呗,有啥好紧张的啊,过会儿不就回来了么。”

我妈大约是为了安慰我,也是为了安慰自己,故作轻松地说:“也是也是,应该没啥事情。”

就这样,我爸和我妈为着我的孩子,两地分居了两年多。有时,我妈和人聊天时,提到我爸一人在老家,常常会叹口气,说道:“那有什么办法呢。”

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离职深造的这一年时间里,我在家里写论文,让我妈回家,开始了自己带妞妞的全职妈妈生活,因此有了很多机会接触小区里的老人们。

他们说着天南海北的方言,每天天气好的时候,就推着婴儿车,或者抱着孩子,或者牵着孩子,下楼来到小区广场上晒太阳。

我喜欢和他们聊天,听他们说些老家的事情,照顾孩子的事情,各自遇到的烦恼。毋庸置疑,最常听到的是,他们不快乐。

“不是我不喜欢说话,是我说话别人听不懂。”有位被其它老人评价孤僻的湖南阿姨努力用尽量接近普通话的方式一字一顿地说。

“我儿媳妇嫌弃我不会带孩子。我也生气啊,真不想给他们带了,我也没办法。”有位看着很能干的阿姨愤慨地表达着。

“我下个月不在这待了。”

“回老家?“

“不是不是,是我家老二的媳妇生了,我要去老二那带孩子。老大的这个让丈母娘来顶会儿班。”白发苍苍的老阿姨眉宇间刻着深深的倦意。

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