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农村“天价彩礼”是好是坏?真实情况是男家愁,女家难!
近几年,农村“天价彩礼”频现,备受广大农民朋友所诟病,更成为了当代农村父母的一大“难题”。究其原因,主要还是农村男女比例失调,导致农村女孩在婚姻“市场”中越来越抢手。其次也是因为经济条件的提高,还有农村越来越严重的攀比心理在作祟。
“天价彩礼”的出现,对即将谈婚论嫁的农村家庭来说真的好吗?相信大部分小伙子都会说不好,这是古代“卖闺女”的现代手段。而大部分女青年也会问,区区几万或者十几万的彩礼都不舍得出,钱重要还是我重要?“天价彩礼”到底是好是坏?咱先站在男女双方各自家庭的角度来考虑。
首先是男方家庭,不得不说“天价彩礼”是有儿子的农村家庭最大的“痛”。虽然农村经济条件在逐渐提高,但是大多数农村家庭还要为孩子准备买车、买房、家具家电等结婚所需的诸多费用。如果是以种地为主要收入来源的普通农村家庭,“天价彩礼”无疑是雪上加霜,即使东凑西借能勉强拿出,结婚后债台高筑生活也会苦不堪言。毫无疑问,“天价彩礼”对男方家庭来说,是一大“愁”。
再站在女方家庭的角度来看,“天价彩礼”也是喜忧掺半。很显然,如果男方家庭满足其“天价彩礼”的要求,女方父母肯定会在村里挺起胸、抬起头,面子有了,心理上也得到了最大的满足。但是,上述情况只是占其中很小的一部分。
据老农观察,真正提出“天价彩礼”的,不外乎两种情况。首先,一儿一女,儿子未娶的家庭。这类家庭所要“天价彩礼”的原因其实很简单,相当于借女婿家的钱,作为娶儿媳的款项。其次,只有一女或多女的家庭。像这类家庭提出“天价彩礼”实属无奈,农村人忧患意识特别强,膝下无子,女儿出嫁,只有钱才能让垂暮之年在生活上有保障,也能填补心理上的空虚。所以,即便提出“天价彩礼”,他们也有说不出的难处。
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