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七夕到了,为何你还是单身?答案扎心了……

2017-08-28 13:41:23   中国青年网

又是一年七夕节,很多人调侃自己去年单身,今年单身,明年可能还单身。单身似乎已经成为了一种社会问题,为什么会有那么多人单身呢?

“京籍京户,东西海的房,7座以下中高档车,月薪5万+,硕博或海归”为顶配,“非京户,无房,属羊”决不考虑……7月,一条坐标北京的“中国式相亲鄙视链”火了,不仅置身全国各地公园的相亲角跟着火了,“大龄单身青年找对象”也再度被推上热门话题。七夕临近,人民网多地记者走上街头,与网友聊聊相亲的那些事儿。

有人坚定有人抗拒 单身青年聊相亲情绪不一

湖北小董今年28岁,前一段时间他的爷爷从相亲角给他找了个对象。“起初俩人见面都颇有好感,人生观价值观也都互相认同,我以为我找到了人生伴侣,然而当我提出要一同去广州发展时,姑娘却杳无音信了。” 三年间,小董经历了各式各样的相亲,有些女孩子加了微信,聊天还没真正开始就被拉黑,“人家姑娘根本没有认识我的意愿,加我微信,估计就像完成任务,告诉父母一下。”

尽管经历了各种失败,但小董仍然相信相亲是寻找人生伴侣的良好途径,“在自然状态下,恋爱发生的概率很低,而相亲恰好克服这一问题,它能帮助单身男女们快速结识其他单身异性,并且经过筛选能让缘分更快发生。”

与小董不一样,也有相当一部分受访者认为,相亲是件不光彩的事,甚至把“相亲”视同“逼婚”。“总觉得相亲很别扭,如果我去相亲了,我会觉得这是件难以启齿的经历。”同样在湖北,32岁的单身女性小任这样告诉记者。

“之前为了让家人安心去相亲过一次,当时家长负责聊天,我埋头吃饭,和对方没什么交流,之后也没再联系。”在深圳工作生活的“80后”唐小姐,谈起自己唯一的相亲经历有些无奈。尽管很想“脱单”,但因为觉得相亲目的性太强,摆出种种条件,唐小姐还是觉得对这种形式有些抵触。“我想找个有共同爱好的人谈两三年恋爱,水到渠成地考虑结婚生子,这样才完整。冲着条件去相亲再结婚,总觉得是为结婚而结婚,不是真正的感情。”

除了年轻人,也有一些父母对相亲并不感冒。上海的老毛坦言,自己并不喜欢相亲角,“大家一见面就问房子、户口、收入、学历、外貌、有无婚史,这样的相亲无异于推销。”然而,儿子年近三十开始着急个人问题,主动向老毛提起了人民公园的相亲角。老毛明白儿子自己不好意思,这才答应儿子找时间过去看看。

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