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教育的问题,还是家长的问题?

2017-09-20 07:57:14   央广网

美国著名记者,普利策奖获得者爱德华·休姆斯曾经写过一部报告文学《美国最著名的中学是如何炼成的——惠尼中学成长记》,探索了旧金山最著名的公立中学惠尼中学的成功秘诀。书的第一章,纪录了一个有远大理想的高三女生的一天:喝4杯咖啡,睡4个小时,得4.0的GPA(平均成绩)。和这位女生的辛苦相比,衡水中学的同学恐怕也相形见绌了。在美国很多著名的中学,优秀学生下半夜睡觉是家常便饭。

但是长期以来,我们一些专家、舆论给中国的家长与社会公众描绘了一个极其错误和荒诞的观念与印象:在美国英国等西方先进的学校教育中,孩子们都是无忧无虑的,老师、家长是强调个性与尊重的,孩子们在快乐幸福中走进了名校,也更有创造力,最后还创造出巨大成就。

但我不得不说,这番美好的情景是不存在的。绝对的快乐和幸福是有的,绝对的没有负担也是有的,但这就是美国很多公办学校,所谓薄弱校。没有人会关心你的成绩,下班后你很难找到老师,毕业率超过50%甚至成为学校追求的目标。因此历届美国政府在教育治理上是全面否定其公办学校的。

从比尔·盖茨,到奥巴马、扎克伯格,无一和那种无忧无虑,绝对的轻松快乐无关,他们的中小学教育,基本都来自这类私立学校与优质公办学校,他们的成就也都是超常付出后的结果。

但是我们家长已经被这种虚妄的言论误导,很多家长一方面希望孩子有出息有成绩,一方面却总觉得孩子太辛苦,希望孩子能轻松快乐地有成就,这种分裂的想法,进一步强化了我们对自己教育的不满。

这篇文章的最后,这位老科技工作者幡然醒悟:“我忽然明白一个家庭传承的终极意义是什么。所谓家学,就是让下一代,比我们更能接近真实的自己。”

但他们拿出的解决方案是移民西班牙,享受美式的教育去实现这个目标。对此我莫名其妙,忽然想起,有人质疑这是一篇营销西班牙移民的稿件,最好是如此,否则,我实在难以理解这幡然悔悟后的解决方案。

如果目标仍然是常青藤,我笃定,你仍然不会有你所想要的快乐,我笃定,可能会更辛苦!

教育部部长陈宝生在新学期伊始谈到新学期的心愿,有这么一句话,我觉得非常接地气,值得送给广大的家长与学生:我也希望学生们,包括新入学的学生,好好学习。学习是艰苦的,又是快乐的,谁也不要想不付出辛劳就能成才,辛苦并快乐着好于快乐并辛苦着。我提倡前者,就是辛苦并快乐着,从辛苦中产生快乐,其乐无穷。(作者为中国教育在线总编辑)

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