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六旬老汉不忍被骂窝囊废 锤杀妻子和女儿后自首

2017-05-26 08:10:58   

眨眼间残忍地杀害了自己的两个亲人,封某某的头脑变得一片空白。他一个人走到天井外,许久才回过神来。清醒后,明白这个家已经彻底毁了,封某某随即返回客厅拿来纸笔,把家事交代好,然后独自一人步行到辖区派出所自首。“因我总是捶打头部,那肯定是没得救了。”在接受警方讯问时,这个年近六旬的农村男子很后悔。在他想来,要是忍一忍,事情也就过去了,可偏偏没能克制自己的情绪,导致事情变成了这个样。

心理剖析:自尊遭遇伤害应激反应是悲剧根源

国家二级心理咨询师麦雨剖析认为,人们往往警惕来自外面世界的伤害,而忽略来自家庭内部的伤害。事实是,来自家庭内部的伤害要比来自外面世界的伤害多。人们都看得懂身体遭受的伤害,是因为淤青的皮肤,流血的伤口,能活生生地控诉着施暴者的罪行。但是,人们往往忽略精神上遭受的伤害,因为施暴者一通语言暴力后,破碎一地的心灵无人能看见。

该案例就是一个活生生的例子:封某某文化水平不高,性格内向,能力不强,这种人往往自我评价低,低自尊水平是他的特性。这是他最怕别人触碰的最敏感的神经。但是这种人会给人好欺负的感觉。可能在生活中他经常被嘲笑,被贬低,这些都是对他的语言伤害。从他的供述看,妻子长期对他表示不满,随便冲他发脾气,不断数落他,这些情绪会积攒下来,形成一种压力源。在这次变更土地事件中,他没有能力办成,自己就已经很受挫了。而妻子还不断地责备他,说他是“窝囊废”,把他贬得分文不值,严重地伤害了他的自尊,深深地刺痛了他的神经,结果他拿出铁锤捶死了妻子,这是一种应激反应。

如何去理解封某某杀死自己孩子的行为?实际上,这份长时间累积下来的不满情绪爆发后,封某某就像是一辆狂奔的车子无法刹车,有人刚好走到那个位置就被撞上了一样。从案情分析,封某刚开始没有杀害女儿的念头,但作案后被她这么一呵斥,失控情绪就有如崩堤洪流,再也挡不住了,女儿也就在他这样的疯狂情绪中变成了牺牲品。

杀人者令人愤恨,也令人同情。从封某某妻子方面看,她嫁了这样一个丈夫,是她的选择。他没什么文化,且性格内向,能力不强,比不上别人的老公,但是她还是选择了嫁给他,心里又不愿意接纳他,这就是导致家庭矛盾的一个原因。所以在夫妻关系中,大家要明白一个事实:当初你选择的这个人,他(她)本身就是这个样子,不会因为你们结婚了就变成了另外一个人,不要有超出这个人实际的幻想。在封某某家,既然封某某办不成这件事,封妻可以帮助他办,而不是单纯地抱怨,毕竟这是家庭的大事,家庭成员都有责任去共同承担。因此,凡事学会从对方角度出发,事情也就容易解决了。

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