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《欢乐颂2》:樊胜美的悲剧不在于爱慕虚荣,最重要的是这一点

2017-05-17 15:54:57   

谈内心的人不知道是不是遇到了她生命中的王柏川,但一定是一个生活优越,至少有优越感的人才会说出的梦话。

樊胜美其实有点像《人民的名义》中的祁同伟,农村出生、家庭贫困,通过自己的努力考入大学,后来留在大城市打拼。他们也曾有过梦想,也想通过自己的努力实现心中的抱负。

可是在没有背景、没有贵人相助、没有天上掉馅饼的机遇、没有进入上流社会的通行证的前提下,在只讲金钱的残酷现实面前,他们不得不相信一切都是命运的安排,命运已经将他们的一切都打上了深深的烙印,命里有时终须有,命里无时也强求不来。于是,更多的人才会明白《祁同伟死了不可怕,最可怕的是这两点》。

樊胜美们的悲剧不在于爱慕虚荣和现实残酷,最重要的是出生决定命运。

所以他们会一再地错过自己所爱也爱自己的人,遭遇生活的种种打击之后,选择心有不甘地相信命运。

她们也想通过自己的努力去寻找真爱,努力奋斗取得成功,但是因为起点太低了,曲筱绡一生下来就轻松拥有的东西,樊胜美们需要努力奋斗20年也不一定会得到。而安迪通过自己努力最终拥有的高海拔,是她生在一个机会均等的美国社会,抛开中美差距以及社会论,至少是有极高的天资以及只要够努力就能够拥有自己所梦想的一切的环境,而樊胜美这样的中等偏上的人才,在上海这样的繁华都市比比皆是,不管她们怎么努力,怎么钻营自己,白富美始终不跟富沾边。

都说富不过三代,那穷也就会延续三代以上。这里的穷不单单是金钱的多少,还包括思维、心理、涵养、素质、品德、修养、气质等等隐藏于内的精神层面的东西。

富人和穷人的差距不仅仅是拥有金钱的多少,更多的则是隐形的东西。不是说富人都有涵养、有气质、有素质,也不是说穷人都没有素质和修养,而是说富人教育下一代的方法和穷人教育下一代的方法是有着本质区别的。这也就是为什么很多农村人就算因为拆迁分了钱,搬进了楼房,却依然舍不得花钱享受以及在城市因为思维方式因循守旧而格格不入的原因。

论姿色,樊胜美是具备的,她也清楚地知道在这个不看重自己努力、梦想的现实社会,能被人看重的也只有仅剩的一眼就能够辨识的颜值了。她也试图利用这张仅有的王牌去挤进上流社会和贵圈,然而就算借助美貌拿到入场券之后,也依然成为了富二代的玩物,结局比嫁给王柏川这样的潜力股输的更惨。

家庭的背景可以将一个人所有努力得到的荣耀打回原形。这一点毫不夸张,因为就算你拥有了一切,你那深渊一样的家庭也会毫不留情地瓜分。

《了不起的盖茨比》中说,“每逢你想要批评任何人的时候,你就记住,这个世界上所有的人,并不是个个都有过你拥有的那些优越的条件。”

哈佛公开课《公平的起点是什么》中指出:即使是努力本身,很大程度上也依赖于幸运的家庭环境。两位罗斯福总统都毕业于哈佛,“布什家族”四代都是耶鲁校友,小布什在竞选的时候甚至开玩笑说,我继承了我父亲一半的朋友。

那些凭借自己努力挣脱出生阴影的人,最终也会被命运紧紧扼住咽喉,成为前行路上永远也无法丢弃的包袱,因为你的善良终究会被你的家庭作为最后的赌注而输得一败涂地。

【羿云天,非著名写作者。红袖添香、郑在读书特约作者。原名徐亨福,生于兰州,现居郑州。公号:羿云天说。记录属于爱情的故事,分享缤纷世界的精彩,点评时事百态的喜怒。有料有态度,更有温度】

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