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上海民警资助聋哑儿童12年 日记本记下俩人无声之爱

2017-09-25 08:36:54   中国青年网

“她看见我的时候,已经一年没见了,她的眼神我有点读不懂,可能是惊喜吧。”徐泾桓回忆起当年的见面,依然红了眼眶,“佳佳长高了很多,她在操场上看到我的时候愣在了原地,后来又伸出小手比出‘阿姨’的手语。我就像看见自己的孩子长大了一样,特别有感触,忍不住就哭了。”

之后,佳佳的爷爷奶奶邀请徐泾桓去他们家坐坐。刚刚调来的徐泾桓因为在上海没有亲人,也想来看看这个自己资助的小女孩家里的情况。

她至今还记得第一次去佳佳家里的场景:“佳佳家里大概40平方米,她自己睡阳台上,我进门之后佳佳一直躲在爷爷奶奶背后不敢出来。” 后来,徐泾桓只要有空都会到佳佳家里去看她,给佳佳带一点单位发的洗发水、香皂之类的生活品,“我能做的也不多,这样能减轻爷爷奶奶的负担就减一些吧。”

徐泾桓给佳佳送了一个笔记本,她让佳佳把心里话写在小本上,每次见面,她们都会在小本上交流。“徐阿姨,我又拿了学校的三好学生!”“徐阿姨,我上次的考试没发挥好……”“徐阿姨,有男孩子追我怎么办?”这些点点滴滴,全部都在属于俩人的笔记本里。

徐泾桓和佳佳通过手语交流。作为榜样帮助佳佳走出“自私”和“偏执”

起初的经济帮困,渐渐变成了精神上的关注和支持。随着交往加深,徐泾桓发现,像佳佳一样的聋哑人表达自己的途径很少,“因为他们表达不出,别人也看不懂,很容易造成性格上的偏执,分解压力的方式,有时候会比较自私。”

佳佳的奶奶也回忆,佳佳在小时候不懂得分享,比较自私。

为此,爷爷奶奶一直将徐泾桓的行动作为榜样灌输给佳佳:“你看,下这么大雨徐阿姨都来看你,你不能因为下雨就不去上学。”当佳佳在抱怨班级选举其他同学使用的“手段”时,徐阿姨告诉她:“用自己认为正确的方式去赢得同学的选票。”

今年,佳佳的爷爷奶奶快65岁了,他们认为,十多年来,徐泾桓对佳佳的帮助并不仅仅是每年的一两千块,而是从精神上给佳佳带来的转变。如今,佳佳把徐阿姨当做自己的榜样,小伙伴们也羡慕她有一位穿着警服的阿姨。佳佳总是告诉别人,在她的家里,有爷爷、奶奶和徐阿姨。

凭借今年优异的考试成绩,佳佳其实可以到北京一所条件更好的高校就读,徐泾桓也曾给她建议:“在北京也有很多徐阿姨的好朋友,她们会像阿姨一样照顾你。”但是佳佳拒绝了,她告诉徐泾桓,她舍不得爷爷奶奶,也舍不得经常来看她的徐阿姨。

佳佳告诉徐泾桓,她最大的愿望是想在今后找到一份好工作,赡养爷爷奶奶,除此之外,她还想像自己的徐阿姨一样去帮助别人。

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