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男子为求婚答应做"丁克" 结婚5年后反悔想要孩子

2017-07-17 11:12:18   当代生活报

经过长时间的冷静思考后,谢先生再次找到黄女士,表示为了能跟她在一起,可以放弃生育孩子,他家里有个哥哥,父母应该不会因此而太伤心。黄女士让他想清楚,但谢先生表示只要能跟她在一起就会感到幸福,有没有孩子都可以。这个表态令黄女士很感动,答应了谢先生的求婚

二人世界

父母的疑问从不愿解释

结婚之后,夫妻俩享受着自由自在的二人世界。黄女士说,他们平时各忙各的事业,回到家里想看书就看书,想看电影就看电影,如果不想做饭就一起到楼下吃个快餐,或者搜索美食地图,驱车到很远的地方去共进浪漫晚餐,完全不会被“家庭琐事”所拖累。周末或节假日时如果想出去走走,两人背起背包,牵着手就出发了。

因为双方父母都不知道他们做丁克的想法,婚后不久就开始遭遇父母逼生孩子,但两人始终口径一致搪塞过去。“我们说了他们也不会理解,还不如不说。”黄女士说,她知道在父母的观念里,传宗接代的传统观念没办法改变,看着父母为了孩子操劳一辈子,她不愿走父母的老路,只想追求自己的人生理想和快乐,认为这样才不枉到世上走一遭。

黄女士说,如今做丁克已经不是什么另类,很多年轻人都能接受。她自己想得非常明白,倒是丈夫谢先生偶尔看到小区里有小孩子在玩耍,还是会有意地说一句:“我们要是有个孩子也是不错的。”

“我知道他的心思,他是喜欢孩子的,如果他跟别的女人结婚,也许早就生二胎了。”黄女士对记者说。

公婆“逼迫”

5年后老公反悔想要娃

结婚5年来,黄女士和丈夫没少被父母催,长辈还怀疑起两人的生育能力,但两人还是不愿做解释。“自己过得开心就得了,没必要去解释。”黄女士说,很多人觉得女人一辈子不生育就不完整,但她并不这样认为,“每个人的追求不同”。

然而最近这段时间风云突变,由于谢先生的哥哥没生儿子,黄女士的婆婆开始整天来催他们要小孩,谢先生因为顶不住父母的压力,好几次郑重地跟她提出想生孩子的提议,但都被她坚决驳回。为此,谢先生跟她大吵了一架,吵完之后谢先生捶胸顿足,连说自己“不孝”,说她让他“断子绝孙”,还对她下了通牒,如果她坚持不跟他生孩子就离婚。

要婚姻就必须要小孩,这让黄女士陷入了两难选择。黄女士说,想到生育后就会被孩子各种拖累,她真的铁了心不想生孩子,如今丈夫撕毁婚前的深情承诺,还拿离婚来威胁她,这让她感到十分痛苦,她既不想离婚,也不想生孩子,完全失了主意。

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