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为何在日本“处男”会被视作可耻

2016-12-27 13:05:20   今日头条

1982年,有名的《花花公子》杂志在就“童贞”问题展开的与东京大学学生及高校就读中的处女座谈会上制造了两个新词,一个是“やらはた”,一个是“やらみそ”。前者指二十多岁还没有过性经验的人,后者指三十岁还没有性经验的人,都含有强烈的贬义。两个词都是日式缩略词,词的前半部分是赛马用语,专指那些不被马主、骑手和观众看好的劣马。没经验的原因被归结为本人不好、不行、不受欢迎,这在强调抱团的日本社会是一种要命的评价。

童贞者与失败者之间的等号关系令日本人对“童贞”厌恶到了极点,八十年代日本仇视童贞达到了极点,甚至开始从生理学、社会学角度论证起二十岁失去贞操的必要性。八十年代的日本学者认为,二十多岁的时候身体正棒、分泌正旺,失去贞操乃是自然规律,不可违逆。就社会而言,与异性发生亲密接触是长大成人体验的一部分,没有这部分体验的人是不完整的,不完整的人进入社会就会滋生出这样那样的问题,给社会、给他人带来不必要的麻烦。给他人带来麻烦也能吓死日本人。

日本在战后出台法律禁止卖淫,但社会迫对于童贞的仇视,以及经济上的压力,风俗业大兴,成人爱情动作片制作处于世界领先地位。一方面风俗业的发达的确让部分人通过金钱交易获得体验、摆脱了悲剧的童贞,一方面也创造了新的困境。

风俗店遍布全国,大部份集中在东京(图:百度)

由于风俗业靠钱就能获得经验,产生作用的不是人自身,而是金钱,风俗业的发达创造了日本独有的、新的童贞形态,即“素人童贞”和“玄人童贞”。所谓素人童贞指那些仅在风俗场所获得过体验的人,没有和非风俗业者(即素人)发生过关系;玄人童贞正相反,是指那些只和素人发生过关系但没在风月场上靠金钱享受春意的人。素人童贞也是被社会所鄙视的,人不行,只能靠钱,还不如纯粹童贞者。

八十年代之后,童贞是可耻的观念仍在延续,不过宽松世代已经不怎么在乎了。《逃跑可耻但有用》里的男主角毕竟出生在昭和年代,仍旧受到那个时代童贞观的影响,说出“怕被发现没经验”的话也就可以理解啦。

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