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如果婚姻是一场交易,贾晓晔只是没能例外

2016-06-17 14:59:45   海涛评论

周永康

2001年,作为一个“姑娘”,33岁的贾晓晔并不年轻了。这一年,她结婚了,嫁给了时任四川省委书记的周永康。

这一年,周59岁。26岁的年龄差,让贾晓晔从一个大龄女青年变成了一个小娇妻。

对于一个普通男人来说,59岁是一个很大的年龄了,该考虑晚年的生活了。但对于一个省委书记而言,59岁还是一个“大展宏图”的年龄,正是人生最绚丽的阶段。从这个角度来说,二人的结合,相得益彰,老夫少妻,堪称佳话。

婚姻,是人类进化出来的一种特殊的男女关系,这种关系约束了人性,但有利于社会的稳定。从经济学上讲,一个男人和一个女人有排他性地结合在一起,是为了更好地节约成本,从而实现“效益”的最大化。尽管人类搞出了一套叫做爱情的“意识形态”,把一对男女的结合称作是因为“爱”走到一起。但两个人走到一起,更多地还是靠“爱情”之外的因素,比如,门当户对,郎才女貌,嫁汉嫁汉穿衣吃饭。

在现实生活中,我们常常能够看到,“利益基础”往往比“感情基础”对婚姻牢固性共性贡献更大一些。毕竟,利益是摸得着看得见的,而感情则是脆弱的不稳定。

其实,历史故事里已经讲得很明白,婚姻是手段,利益是目的,爱情是故事——家族联姻,皇族和亲,异族通婚,首先是为了利益。文成公主去西藏之前,怎么可能与松赞干布有爱情呢?但无法否认二人因为政治走到一起之后一定没有爱情。

利益与爱情并不一定具有冲突性甚至很少有冲突性,一则因为,因为利益而结合会更有共同语言因而是可以培养出感情的,一则因为爱情可能就是个不存在的东西——不存在的东西,怎么可能跟利益冲突呢?

所以,我们千万不要贬低因利益而结合的婚姻,也千万不要美化因所谓爱情而结合的婚姻。“秀恩爱,死得快”,以恩爱为基础的婚姻,并不一定坚固。相对而言,利益比感情更能经受考验。流行歌曲中所唱的“我能想到最浪漫的事,就是和你一起慢慢变老”,现实中两个人一起慢慢变老往往是乏味的:如果家里房间够用,即便是因为爱情走到一起的夫妻,大多最后也是会分床而睡的。

所以,不必对周永康和贾晓晔的老夫少妻关系有“不厚道”的评价,不必觉得这样的结合不稳固不幸福,不必认为这样的婚姻一定会“出事”。相反,这样的结合中,双方的“幸福指数”可能更高——他们之间的结合是更具有“互补性”的交易,通过这互补性他们都实现了“高性价比”。从经济学上说,两个人的结合就是一种交易——互有所图,互有价值,达成协议,不就是交易吗?

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