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你有了一个“兄弟”

2017-09-07 08:01:52   中国青年网

你是我生命永远的主角

明日看点:我的妈妈长生不老

章早儿/著

中国华侨出版社

什么是幸福?在我看来,幸福或许就是你遇到一个爱你的人,而他更爱你的孩子。当幼幼“闯进”我的生活时,他是峻叔同床共枕的难兄难弟。我一直都知道,峻叔喜欢幼幼,而幼幼也喜欢峻叔。但下面的这两件事情,更坚定地让我相信,幼幼是喜欢峻叔的。 那天夜里的故事,是幼幼告诉我的,他在日记里写下了这一场景。那时,他和峻叔睡在一张床上,每天晚上,他们都在一番卧谈之后,各自入睡。半夜,幼幼醒来,发现峻叔不在他的身旁。他起身,看到我的房间半掩着,透过门缝,他看到峻叔依偎在我身旁,睡着了,睡得很香。 这件事情对他触动很大,后来,他在日记里写道:我这一辈子,都不会离开他们娘俩。

另一件事,则发生在峻叔一次登台之后。那天,峻叔登上了舞台,在舞台上,他的表现很好。当天晚上,我们回到酒店里,他和峻叔躺在床上。峻叔睡了,然而他却久久没有睡下,辗转反侧。很晚很晚了,他依然没睡。

我问他,为什么还不睡?

他说:唉,峻叔今天登台之前,我居然忘记亲亲他了。他说完这句话,摸着峻叔的头,亲了亲。 我什么话都没说。但我因此整晚都睡不着了。或许,只有父母,才会有他这样的体会,才会因为这点看似小事而在意一晚上,才会想着时时刻刻都要鼓励孩子,一旦有一丝鼓励被忽略的时候,都会觉得那么遗憾。

那一刻,我觉得他是那么爱着峻叔。那一刻,我终于明白,为什么峻叔去哪儿,都要拉着幼幼的手,紧紧地拉着。

我们办理结婚登记那天,双方都没有家长在场。这样一来,峻叔便是我们最重要的见证人。他既是幼幼的兄弟,又是我的“家长”。这一天,最忙活的人,非他莫属。

在婚姻登记处,有一面许愿墙,上面挂满了各个宾客写给新婚夫妇的祝福。峻叔跑过去,拿了一张纸,也写下他的祝福:我们永远在一起。写完, 还帮我们一起署了名。

当我们宣誓完毕,他对我们说道:“以后,我们家就只剩下我一个单身狗了。”

在他心里,早已把幼幼当成他的家人,他的兄弟,他的长辈。后来,我们有了牙牙。我既期待着小生命的降临,又害怕峻叔的失落。

二胎时代,老大如何看待弟弟妹妹?无论是学校,还是旁人,总会有人告诉他:如果妈妈有了弟弟或妹妹,她就不再爱你了。

他跑回来,跟我说:妈妈,如果你有了牙牙,你会不会就不爱我了?我问他:你还记得《唐山大地震》里那个桥段吗?因为地震,弟弟和姐姐都被压在底下,情急之下,消防员只能救一个。消防员问,是救弟弟还是救姐姐?

我给你的答案是:无论什么情况,你和谁,妈妈第一个先救的人是你。但你和牙牙,都是妈妈心里的宝贝。

在牙牙出生前夕,我们都给他录了一段视频。视频中,我告诉牙牙:无论发生什么遇见什么,都希望牙牙要最爱哥哥,永远最爱哥哥。

牙牙出生后,偶然有一次,我问他:峻叔,你第几个喜欢妈妈呀?峻叔居然回答道:第二个喜欢妈妈。我很惊讶,非常生气地问他:那你第一个喜欢的人是谁?峻叔毫不思索地回答:牙牙啊。我笑了,我想,现在的我最幸福的事情,就是峻叔最爱牙牙。

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