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外婆3年连带两孙暴瘦十多斤

2017-09-03 04:45:53   中国青年网

【眼看着大宝上了幼儿园自己可以喘口气了,没想到独生女儿紧接着又添了二宝,老家山东的李阿姨被女儿“勒令”常住武汉帮忙带伢。最近两三个月来,她突然失眠,胃口也变差了,一下瘦了十多斤。女儿带着她跑了多家医院,吃了不少药,收效甚微。几天前,李阿姨终于在武汉市心理医院找到症结:过度焦虑患上了抑郁症。

外婆3年连带两娃暴瘦十多斤

63岁的李阿姨是山东人,退休后的生活原本充实又轻松,上上课跳跳舞旅旅游。

4年前,大学毕业后留汉工作的独生女儿生了孩子,她就时常来汉小住和亲家母轮流带孩子。

去年大宝进了幼儿园,李阿姨以为自己可以喘口气了,结果女儿又怀上了二胎。女儿说,爷爷奶奶专管大宝,二宝就交给她来带。买个菜听不懂武汉话,离开老伴身边也没个说话的人……尽管在武汉住不惯,但拗不过女儿的李阿姨还是一口应承了下来。

二宝3个月时,女儿上班了。李阿姨又管伢又忙家务,每天累得腰都直不起来,晚上还要带伢睡觉,也不敢睡太沉。时间一长,李阿姨开始整夜整夜睡不着觉,吃东西没胃口,经常头晕心慌,两三个月下来瘦了十多斤。

问题堆积累出“心病”

女儿带着她做胃镜、查心脏,做遍了检查都没有发现问题。在朋友的建议下,她带着妈妈找到了武汉市心理医院。睡眠治疗中心主任张昌勇详细问诊后,给李阿姨做了量表测试,结果诊断为中度抑郁症。“老人身体上的种种不适,都是心情焦虑抑郁的表现。”

有多少老人带完一个孙辈后,还愿意再带第二个?

昨天,记者随机采访了12位老人,其中,超过七成的老人表示力不从心、带不动、带伤了。家住青山钢都花园的杨阿姨说,带孙辈比当年自己带子女更累,主要是责任大心累。

三成老人带孙子出现情绪问题

调查数据显示,在我国2岁半以下的儿童中,主要由祖辈照顾的比例达到60%-70%,3岁以上占40%,老人成为带伢“主力军”。“现在老年人因为隔代带养带出情绪问题的,还真不在少数。”张昌勇向武汉晚报记者透露,现在每天要接诊三四十个睡不着的老人,追问发现三成都跟带伢有关。

市精神卫生中心老年病科主任冯少慧说,带伢是个辛苦活,孩子晚上哭闹、喝奶、换尿布、踢被子,加上老人本来睡眠质量就不好,整天提心吊胆,更是容易因焦虑导致失眠。

冯少慧指出,老人和年轻人住在一起,生活习惯不同,难免会有矛盾。再加上老人与年轻人育儿理念不同,一旦沟通不畅,老人各种情绪就都来了。她表示,随着“全面二孩”政策的放开,老人带小孩的压力越来越大,出现情绪障碍的老人明显增多。

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