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朋友圈过分为娃拉票,可能树立了坏榜样
2017-08-31 09:47:31 中国青年网
“麻烦大家动动手指,为我家宝宝投上宝贵一票。”这句话是不是有点眼熟?在微信群和朋友圈,很多人能看到这样的话语。有时人情攻势不见效,爸妈们甚至动用微信红包。有报道称,一家长为给孩子拉票,一晚上发出4000多元红包。
中国科学院大学研究员李新影接受记者采访时表示,多数家长让孩子参加比赛的初心,是为了让孩子多参与、见世面。但比赛规则设计和评选方式却悄然扭转了他们的初衷,比赛变成了“拼人脉”。而孩子的实力、表现、参赛作品等本该成为决定胜败的关键因素,却变得无关紧要。这样的比赛把成人世界的不公平竞争带到孩子的世界,把“朋友圈”变成了“投票圈”。
上学期间是一个人价值观形成的重要时期,中国有句俗语“三岁看大,七岁看老”。李新影说,孩子就像一张白纸,你如何上色,他就会显现出何种颜色。让孩子参加靠拉票取胜的活动,不仅对孩子成长毫无益处,反而造成潜移默化的毒害。
一方面,父母想方设法拉票会让孩子过分关注结果,无形中让他们更在意名次,变得功利;另一方面,父母不顾一切地拉票,本身就是一种以自我为中心、不考虑他人感受的做法,这种不当的处事方式会影响孩子;最后,活动本身通过拉票定胜负的做法,对孩子是一种心理暗示,让孩子产生成功不是靠实力素质,而是靠拉拢人际关系的错误认识。
如果是通过拉票取得好成绩,更容易导致孩子形成虚假自信,变得膨胀。任何人的成长都不可能一帆风顺、永远都得第一名,无论胜败都是必经之路。
望子成龙、望女成凤是所有父母的心愿和普遍诉求。但家长盲目拉票的后果,不仅无助于孩子健康成长,还与我们的教育目标南辕北辙。李新影呼吁,作为学校、商家,应尽量少组织这类靠投票评选的比赛。面对各类名目繁多的海选,家长不要盲目参与。此外,相关管理部门也应负起责任,做好引导与监管工作。
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