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准继子脾气大 再婚难上加难
2017-08-27 06:00:48 中国青年网
长春晚报记者 刘冰
讲述者 雏菊(化名)
离异多年后,她遇到再次让她心动的人,奈何对方有一个脾气火暴的儿子,她百般讨好却换来自取其辱。一边是现实的压力,一边是对感情的渴望,她该何去何从?
4年前我结束了一场错误的婚姻。我前夫性格又自私又暴躁,我坚持了两年终因他酒后对我动手我主动结束了这场婚姻。如今看来离婚是我自我保护及时止损的明智之举,但在当时因为感情的牵绊使得我分手之后很长一段时间里,在痛苦的泥沼中无力自拔自我折磨。或许我潜意识里想要把对他的仅存的念想都耗尽吧。
今年年初,我经朋友介绍认识了现在的男朋友,他比我大5岁,有一个7岁的儿子。我俩刚开始接触的时候他就把他家的情况跟我坦白了,特别是他的儿子,他言辞很含蓄只是说他儿子有点儿淘气。后来介绍人告诉我,他这个儿子不仅淘气还很顽劣,之前他处了两三个女朋友都是被他这个儿子给气跑了。知道这一层之后我犹豫过,可最终挺舍不得我们俩的感情的,没遇到他之前,我对婚姻已经没有什么想法了,是他让我重新对婚姻生活有了渴望,当时我想还是和他进一步交往看看再说。
到今年7月,我们俩交往已经半年了,说实话我们挺合拍的,经过考查我断定他是一个值得托付终身的男人。也是基于这个考虑我想进一步接触一下他的儿子,为日后做准备。我听他说5年前他前妻婚内出轨,而且毫无悔意,他只好离婚。他前妻也没有跟他争孩子的抚养权,直接跟人跑到大连去了。这些年偶尔打来电话问问孩子情况,更别提抚养费什么的了。起初我挺心疼这个孩子的,我想以后要是真成一家人了,我一定好好对他。我给他买了很多玩具还带他看电影吃好吃的,他对我一直不冷不热的。但是我男朋友说,这样他就已经很给我面子了。我以为我很有希望,直到前几天,我们领他去游泳,他想买一个橡皮小鸭子,就因为我买的慢了,他把小鸭子扔到地上一顿踩,边骂我是狐狸精边抡拳头打我。当时我都傻了,好好的突然间被攻击,他爸看见了赶过来把他拉开,那孩子就跟忽然间发癔症一样,吓死我了。后来我男朋友跟我解释,说是这孩子被爷爷奶奶惯坏了脾气不好,可我看可不仅仅是脾气大而已。
现在我重新考虑和他的关系,越想越没有信心,我真的受不了日后每一天都和这个孩子共处一室,可我又舍不得来之不易的感情,我该怎么办呢?
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