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为自己点一盏心灯

2017-08-21 07:21:42   中国青年网

马亚伟

美学家朱光潜说,这个世界之所以美满,就在于有缺陷,有希望的机会、有想象的田地。朱先生温和地坐在黑暗里,感受“无目的”的人生清凉。他智慧地面对世界和个人处境,愿用一切美德来换心性的温和。

温和地坐在黑暗里,这是一种多么从容和睿智的人生态度啊!如今,时代不同了,环境变了,可这句话对我们仍有指导意义。单从个人境遇的角度说,任何人都有可能陷入黑暗中,你是不是能够做到态度平和?你是不是能够温和地坐在黑暗里?

我们面对突如其来的糟糕境况时,常常气急败坏,痛苦不堪,甚至自我沉沦。生活中经常看到有些人,有一点不顺心就像一只竖起刺的刺猬一样,满身戾气,好像觉得全世界都欠他的,恨不得把整个世界都扎个遍。还有的人失意时,就像陷入深渊一样,看不到一丝希望,整个人痛苦得不能自拔,而且越陷越深,最后如同微弱的烛光一样,熄灭在黑暗中。

温和地坐在黑暗里是一种什么样的心境呢?无边的黑暗包抄过来,让人有一种黑云压城的毁灭感,人慢慢地往下沉,往下沉。可是,你的一颗心始终怀着对光明的期许,世界有阴影,人生有逆境,都是再正常不过的事,没有什么完美或者圆满存在,参差多态是世界的面貌,起起伏伏是人生的常态,没有走不出的困境,所以这个世界根本不存在所谓的绝境,只要你肯努力,很快就能迎来柳暗花明。身处黑暗,你要温和地坐着,不急不躁,不怨不怒,不悲不伤,默默等待并且寻找光明的出口。温和地坐着,坐成岁月里的一棵树,承受着自然赐予的一切风霜雪雨,站成永恒,没有悲欢的姿势。渐渐的,你的心静得能感知到世界每一个细微的变化。世界只管波澜动荡吧,你如同一个纷纭世事的旁观者,一切都了然于胸,不为所困,不为所累。“归去,也无风雨也无晴”,人便能真正超脱于尘俗之上,温和地面对一切。

温和地坐在黑暗里,是对自己的善待。陷入困境,自我折磨甚至自我摧毁是一种状态,而平静地自我救赎又是一种状态。选择安静地坐下来,理顺思路,把生活的乱麻整理成一束花,然后笑对自己。即使周围阴森恐怖,你也要为自己点一盏心灯,努力驶出海浪汹涌的地带,抵达平静安宁的彼岸。困境中,学会善待自己,不要暴跳如雷,不要伤心欲绝,不必和世界拼个你死我活。糟糕的情绪,摧毁的是你的身心。平静下来,温和面对,这样你的心永远是饱满鲜活的,心不枯萎,一切都会好起来的。

温和地坐在黑暗里,也是对别人的善待。人在失意时能够表现出善良得体,对周围的人来说是一件幸运的事。能够温和地坐在黑暗里,不会用咆哮或者怒吼惊扰别人,也是一种修养。我们见过太多的人,因为自己的糟糕境遇,无端对别人发泄情绪,伤及无辜。还有一些人,平日里彬彬有礼,陷入糟糕情绪不懂得调节,把周围的人当成发泄对象,动不动就吼叫或咒骂,斯文扫地。得意而不忘形,失意而不带怨气和戾气,都是难能可贵的。温和地坐在黑暗里,默默消化不良情绪,积极调整,然后给世界一个微笑,也给自己一片海阔天空。

温和地坐在黑暗里,一缕曙光必将悄然降临……

(摘自《中国国门时报》2017年7月21日)

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