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当你不再 甘心平庸地过一生

2017-08-20 03:46:15   中国青年网

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前阵子豆瓣网上有篇日记挺热,作者写的是怎样把小县城学渣弟弟培养成香港理工大学物理系的高材生的故事,从辅导落下的基础课程,到怎样调整学习方法、摆平心态,还把在外几年求学见过听过的各路大神学霸的传奇故事讲给弟弟听,这些东西一点一滴在弟弟心中投下对未来的希望和畅想,最终让弟弟摆脱了小县城里同龄人打打麻将喝喝小酒、早早结婚生子的生活,走上了一条完全不同的路。

而这一切,源于弟弟中考前4个月突然给哥哥打来一个电话说,“哥,我想好好学习了。”网友们除了感慨,很多人都在讨论的是——弟弟转变的契机是什么呀?

哥哥老实地回答,不知道,不仅家里父母也想不明白,弟弟自己也没有明确的答案。

也许是偶然看见了母亲辛劳佝偻的背影、父亲鬓间的白发;也许是想给心爱的姑娘一个能许诺的未来;也许是被老师/竞争对手狠狠怼过后失眠的深夜;也许就是某天熬夜打完游戏睡个大觉醒来,你大脑缺氧、不知今夕何夕,胸腔内却突然回荡起一个声音——“你真的甘心平庸地度过这一生吗?”

“不,我不甘心。”

这样内心的拷问也许出现你15、25、35岁,甚至45岁、55岁的时候。不晚,出现在任何时候都不晚。

我大姨的邻居,一个奔三望四的男人,没成家没工作,成日闲逛、在家啃老,院子里的人都知道他,背后少不了指指点点,父母也完全拿他没辙。

就是这个扶不起的阿斗,两年前突然像变了个人似的,先是借了辆车开起了滴滴快车,辛辛苦苦起早贪黑开了一年,小有积蓄后又倒腾起一家小小的包点铺。我去光顾过两次,皮薄馅多味道不错,所以生意也不错。再后来听说他结婚了,对象是包点铺隔壁开水果店的农村寡妇。

我大姨父去参加了他的婚礼,新娘比他大四岁,还有一个十岁的女儿,两人看着恩恩爱爱的。他婚礼上喝多了,抱着老婆痛哭流涕。原来,两年前的一天他喝多了对寡妇动手动脚、出言不逊,却被那泼辣的女人甩了大耳刮子,女人腰杆笔直地怒喝:“我一个女人带着崽在长沙讨生活,还要供养老家的公婆,你一个几十岁的大男人吃父母的用父母的,你好意思吗?我根本瞧你不起!”

“每一个深爱过的人都将成为你人生的导师。”何尝不是呢?没必要用“年轻不懂爱情”为自己开脱,每一段没有善终的爱情,无非是一个人配不上另一个罢了。那些路过我们生命的爱人就是一面镜子,让你对着镜子自己跟自己掐架,最好是头破血流、脱胎换骨后,你勇敢地走出自己的舒适圈,去爱一个人必然很累,去承担和付出必然很累,你突然明白了父母不易、赚钱不易、人生不易。

看看奋斗中的你,也许暂时过的是啃咸菜吃泡面的日子,但是精气神都在,你漂漂亮亮、体体面面的,散发出的光彩一定会吸引那个同你一样爱自己、爱生活的另一个人。或者是胸膛宽厚的他,或者善解人意的她,别的不说,但显然比你用蚂蚁花呗供养起来脆弱又不平等的爱情要真实。

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