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八旬老人50年如一日悉心照顾百岁婆婆

2017-08-18 09:22:21   中国青年网

□李明 刘雪燕 报道

本报广饶讯 看上去娇小瘦弱,今年已经79岁的大码头镇蒋官村妇女燕淑英精心赡养婆婆56个春夏秋冬,无微不至、无怨无悔,直到婆婆100岁去世。她用善良和行动,诠释了中华民族尊老、敬老、爱老的传统美德。提起她,全村男女老少都忍不住点赞,敬佩她是一位了不起的好儿媳。

1962年,怀揣对幸福生活的美好憧憬,刚满23岁的燕淑英与本镇蒋官村青年蒋积涛步入了婚姻的殿堂。婆家也是一个地道的农民家庭,公公早逝,家庭生活特别困难。自燕淑英嫁过来,她便主动扛起了买菜做饭照顾婆婆的重担。

自结婚以来,燕淑英总是把每顿饭的头一碗端给婆婆。婆婆喜欢吃鱼,上世纪七八十年代物质条件差,逢年过节燕淑英才能给婆婆买上几条鱼炖炖。到了上世纪九十年代,家庭生活条件慢慢变好了以后,每逢赶集,燕淑英总不忘买上几斤鱼,细火慢炖、仔细挑刺后再端给婆婆吃。

有时候,燕淑英有事外出,她便提前做好饭菜热在锅里,叮嘱好儿子别忘喂奶奶吃饭。怕儿子照顾不周,她回家再熬汤给老人喝。老人喜欢喝面汤,每顿都要喝汤,顿顿不落,燕淑英每顿都耐心地给婆婆熬汤,还变着花样炒老人喜欢吃的白菜、萝卜、甘蓝、豆角和土豆等各种蔬菜。

婆婆眼睛不好,眼疾经常复发。有一年夏天,因天气炎热感染病菌,婆婆的眼病又犯了,疼得发起高烧,燕淑英看在眼里急在心里,偏偏丈夫又去了外地卖席不在家。她二话没说就把孩子安顿给了邻居大嫂,用手推车推着婆婆出了家门。在小营村,眼科大夫给开了药方,但是那个年代药品奇缺,她只得辗转大营、西刘桥、码头等几个卫生院给婆婆抓药,最后终于在县城医院买到了对症的草药。回到家,她顾不上一天的奔波劳累,赶紧架砂锅熬草药。就这样,婆婆吃了一个月的药,说眼睛明显比以前舒服了很多,她露出了舒心的笑容。

2010年,燕淑英的老伴因脑溢血突然去世,赡养老人的担子全部压在了燕淑英一个人身上。婆婆去世前几年,由于脑子有些失智和糊涂,刚放下饭碗就开始骂,不分时候,有时骂儿子,有时骂儿媳。燕淑英老伴在世时,屡屡受不了母亲责骂,忍不住背后抱怨几句。每到这时候,燕淑英便劝他:“家有一老如有一宝,咱自己的老人,骂两句就骂两句吧,有啥受不了的。老人一辈子不容易,咱们做小辈的就应该多担着点!”到了饭时,燕淑英还是默默地把锅里的肉和火腿挑到碗里,给婆婆端去。

时间久了,邻居们也经常听到燕淑英的婆婆骂人,好多乡亲看不过去,便跟燕淑英开玩笑:“这么孝顺的儿媳上哪找,老人还这样骂!不行你就饿她两顿!”别看邻居们说的是开玩笑的话,但好脾气的燕淑英也忍不住反驳几句:“这是说的什么混账话,我可舍不得!老人年纪大了,咱们得多让着点……”

小姑子知道母亲这个毛病,每次回娘家的时候,一边不停手地洗洗涮刷,一边忍不住为嫂子抱不平,免不了要“训”老人几句。每到这时,燕淑英都拦着不让。她的忍耐、宽容、大度,赢得了全家人和乡里乡亲的尊敬,大家都忍不住为她竖起“大拇指”。

去年10月份,燕淑英的婆婆安详离世。燕淑英用50多年的实际行动践行着她的孝道,印证了她的孝心,也展现了一个农村妇女尊老爱幼、纯朴真诚的伟大情怀。

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