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不要拔苗助长伤了孩子

2017-08-14 06:12:54   中国青年网

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近日主持人乐嘉连发多条微博,分享了他与女儿首次参加沙漠徒步活动的过程。视频中,乐嘉年仅4岁半的女儿蹒跚前进,跟大人一样徒步4天走完近76公里,平均每天近20公里。(据8月12日央广网)

我国自古就有“望子成龙盼女成凤”的老话,为了不让孩子输在起跑线上,许多家长总想尽早激发孩子潜力,完成一些超过同龄人的事,即便付出更多的心血和精力也心甘情愿。但是大多数人在努力培养自己的孩子的时候,只看到孩子超龄发展所能够获得的优势的东西,却很容易忽视其中的错失。其实,培养孩子的能力,必须讲究“在合适的年龄做合适的事”,如果违反了生长规律,不但会加重孩子的负担,甚至会影响他们的健康。

4天里,孩子步伐小掉了队,两条大腿上密密麻麻发出大块的红疹,腿上和脚上起了水泡,觉也睡不好,半夜里帐篷太热,被蚊子围攻……条件如此艰苦的长途跋涉或许可以锻炼孩子的意志,给孩子的心灵带来一次砥砺锤炼,但对她的健康却是极大的威胁。4岁孩子许多肢体协调能力、骨髂发育还末达到最佳状态,孩子教育也需要结合实际,要磨练孩子的心智,可以从生活方方面面、点点滴滴,不完全需要靠这种仪式感的东西来映托。

无论做什么事情,都要尊重科学,尊重自然规律,对孩子的培养教育亦然,拔苗助长可能适得其反。眼下,很多父母都会趁着暑假,让孩子们去体验吃苦教育,磨练孩子的意志力。一些军事化的夏令营、户外生存训练营、沙漠徒步行等活动,成为家长的首选。对于孩子来说,吃苦教育也是必不可少的。但是,在这个过程中,最重要的就是要注意适度,别让吃苦变成了一种残忍的身体折磨,给孩子的身体带来创伤和摧残。

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