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做人做事做官再“十忌”

2017-08-10 16:25:03   中国青年网

做人难免有缺点,干事终归有缺憾,为官肯定有缺失。只有把这些缺点、缺憾和缺失一个个找出来,把一块块绊脚石踢开、搬掉,前行的路才会走得更顺畅、更通畅。

做人难免有缺点,干事终归有缺憾,为官肯定有缺失。只有把这些缺点、缺憾和缺失一个个找出来,把一块块绊脚石踢开、搬掉,前行的路才会走得更顺畅、更通畅。我曾试着开出过“忌服忌用”的20味“药方”(做人做事做官“十忌”、又“十忌”),不少人照单“抓药”,觉得还受用。受此鼓舞,再次“问诊把脉”,再列出“十忌”,以期“对症下药”“有所疗效”。

一、好强、逞强、示强是盛气凌人的“报警器”

人不可太强势,太强势的人,盛气凌人、咄咄逼人,给人压迫感、窒息感,让人透不过气来、缓不过劲来、回不过神来,使人畏之远之。真正强大的人,有不怒而威的气质、气势和气场。表面强大、内心脆弱的人,才时时处处表现出强硬,甚至以此来掩饰内心的那份软弱,正所谓外强中干也。好强的人,爱跟人斗,斗心斗力又斗嘴,总想压倒人、战胜人,不甘示弱,吃不了亏、受不了气、忍不了委屈。时时处处事事逞强、示强是好胜者的习惯。逞强、示强是一种炫耀、一种显摆和一种卖弄,甚至是一种嚣张和狂妄,是在抖威风。特别是,一味地示强容易使自己成为众矢之的,惹是非、引怨愤,导致人际关系紧张。“秀肌肉”是人的一种本能,秀智慧是一种本事,秀智慧比“秀肌肉”好。

二、多心、疑心、分心是英雄气短的“导火索”

心小了,小事就大了;心大了,大事都小了。凡事,既受益于心,又受害于心。多心、疑心很累也很苦,伤人又害己。多心、疑心既源自对他人的不信任,也源自对自己的不自信。多心、疑心的人总是胡思乱想,把简单问题复杂化,结果是困在一团乱麻中走不出去、跳不出来。人,还是简单点好,有时候,与其多心倒不如少一根筋,不妨把复杂问题简单化。人有一份戒心无可厚非,这理应是一层合情合理的自我“保护膜”,但戒心不可无限延伸,演变成多心、疑心。信任人是一种境界,被信任是一种幸福。多心了、疑心了,自然会分心,不可能专注于本该全心投入的人与事。人心的存量是有限的,被多心、疑心挤占的空间多了,心思不集中,分心也就难免了。经常多心、疑心、分心的人,难以专心致志干成事。

三、失落、失望、失志是自暴自弃的“安魂曲”

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