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人到中年,最后悔的是成为了人们眼中年老实人

2017-06-29 11:11:10   

我的朋友小张,在朋友们眼中一直是一个老实人,谁有什么事情,一叫上他,肯定来帮忙。如果谁不小心说了什么话,他也不会计较。

但是,最近一次聚会,这个大家眼中的老实人,却让我们大吃一惊。

原来,他在单位和上司大吵一架,已经辞职回家好久了。

至于原因,在我的追问下,才知道,就是一直给人的印象,太老实,导致这个结果。

在单位,因为性格原因,加上为了给大家一个好印象,一直以老实,勤快来表现。时间长了,大家有什么事情,都推到自己身上,有什么好处,却没自己什么事情。

而且,人心复杂,并不是你真心对待别人,别人就会真心对你,因为老实给人的另一个印象就是好欺负,所以平时,各种玩笑,各种奚落,大家都不太当回事往自己身上招呼。虽然自己十分反感,但是为了维持同事之间的关系,一直忍受着。

但是,时间长了,不但同事认为自己好欺负,就是上级也一样,所有好处,都没什么自己的事。而且对自己的工作能力也产生了怀疑。

作为老实人,领导认为自己没有主见,没有魄力,所以升职的事情,一直和自己无缘,眼看一些不如自己的人,都成为了自己的上级,再加上一直对自己的毫无尊重之心,长期积压之下,小张爆发了。

这就是一个人们眼中的老实人最后的归宿。我无法评判对错。有的人性格等原因,不好争,不好抢。结果给人以老实本分的看法。但是时间长了,没本事的标签也打在你身上了。

做个老实人,真的不容易!

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