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岳父母,你们要的巨额彩礼,毁了我和妻子的一生

2017-06-27 14:32:19   

我对于婚姻是很重视的,没有将就也没有勉强,可就是这段不将就的婚姻让我原本计划的生活毁于一旦。

我是农村人,不到十五六岁的年纪就外出打工,工作了将近十年,存了二十来万左右。这些钱在城市里不算什么,但是我拿到老家开个小商店,日子过的会是绰绰有余。我原本的打算是开个店,然后首付在县城买一套房子,老婆就守店,我继续在外打工。

26岁这年,我谈了个女朋友,人很好温柔体贴会生活,不到三个月就到了谈婚论嫁的地步。女友虽然是城里人但是条件很差,后来我才知道他父亲好赌。步入婚姻一切都很顺利,唯独是彩礼上让我犹豫了好一阵子,因为她的父母要求我出30万的彩礼。

我十年的辛劳就在岳父母的一句话里彻底完了,也怪自己想的太少,我始终坚信着钱这东西没了可以再赚,只要自己够努力够拼。

存的钱外加父母的钱,我凑齐了30万结婚了,结婚没有新房,家里的老房子翻新了一下就住了进去,岳父母和老婆都说房子的事情无所谓,我也想着说以后挣了钱再去县城买。结个婚把我先前所有的规划全部打乱了,我又变成了当年出门打工前的状态。

结完婚在家里待了一年半,忙着培养下一代,那段时间我就在家里跟着别人赶工,一天包两顿饭百来块钱,时有时无的,和在外打工没有可比性,不过却没大城市里的压力和快节奏。

孩子满月后我出门了,家里微薄的薪水日后很难承担起一家人的开支,这期间一件事让我终生难忘,彩礼的30万让岳父输了个干干净净,还欠下了将近十万的债。我每月薄弱的薪水还要帮着岳父还账,家人朋友都骂我傻,可是那是我老婆的生父啊!我不帮哪里还有人肯帮他。

出门打工我更加辛苦了,跟着两个工头两边跑,一天休息不到2个小时,还好只是贴墙砖之类的活,不然做体力活的话我肯定是支撑不起了。一月辛辛苦苦八千多块,给老婆孩子三千,父母二千,帮岳父还账二千,自己生活费一千。

工地只包一顿饭,日常生活用品、吃饭、抽烟喝酒都要花钱,省吃俭用下一千块钱刚刚好过日子。我在外吃这样的苦我谁都没说,只跟家里说让他们不要担心我,我过得很好,一年里我狂瘦了四十斤,我想着再多努力几年,帮岳父还完账,存点钱,等孩子大一些就在县城买房子。

想象很美好,现实很残酷。那个不争气的岳父又赌,也不知道是在哪弄的钱,我每月给他的钱他不仅没用来还债,还又继续借钱了赌,他的债是越滚越多。气得我整个人都崩溃了,发誓不再管他,可老婆每天打电话哭着求我,我又不忍心。

如今结婚六年,我依旧是一名工地上的打工仔,依旧在帮着岳父还债,孩子都上小学了,我依然没钱买房子,一大家子都还要我养着,我真的怕哪天我支撑不下去了。当初的三十万彩礼真的毁了我一生,如果没用这笔钱去结婚,我的日子过的该多滋润。

巨额彩礼,好赌的岳父,我这辈子真是够了。

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