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“想结婚,先借35万给我哥”

2017-06-02 08:23:01   

我是某985学校毕业的,成绩还算可以,目前在一线城市工作,毕业5年了,老家是本省郊区的,父母是企业的普普通通的小职工,赶上这几年城市的发展,日子过得算可以的。

父母现在只盼着我早点结婚生子,他们已经答应结婚买房帮我出首付。

我和女友相处3年多了,她老家是本省的另一个县城的,算是当地人吧。我们也是朋友介绍认识的,自由恋爱,感情很不错。我从没问过她家里的情况,除非她主动和我说,她有一个哥哥一个弟弟,我也没有去想过让她家出钱买房,估计钱都是给她的兄弟俩人的。

其实我和她的收入水平算可以的了,我年薪今年刚涨到15万左右,她在8万左右,撇去消费啥的,我一年能存个6万左右。她的钱我基本不过问,毕竟是婚前,怎么花是她的自由,她还得每个月给父母一些生活费。虽然准备结婚了,但还是各管各的钱,平时俩人在一起的开销基本都是我用的多。

上个月,女友突然告诉我她哥哥要买房结婚,差点钱,想先问我们借点。我问要借多少,我手头最多能借个5万出去,还得留一些自己生活用。女友说,要借35万。我告诉她哪里有那么多钱啊。

女友就说,你家里不是给我们准备了结婚买房的钱吗,把那个钱先拿出来借给我哥呗,反正你家里就你一个独生子,不管怎样,钱都是给你的。

我听了之后感觉很奇怪,这笔钱虽说是我父母准备帮我买房的,但毕竟是父母的钱,我无权使用,他们有权决定把这钱给我(当然肯定是给我的),那也是对我的爱和希望啊。如果这笔钱借给她哥了,我自己买房就要等个好几年,现在房价不断地涨,这笔钱也基本是父母的全部积蓄了,我父母也不一定会同意的。但我没敢开口把这些话说出来,觉得会很伤害我和她的感情。

女友说我俩要结婚,就必须把这钱借给他哥,而且婚后大不了她跟我租房住一段时间。据我所知,她哥是县城里做木工活的,都33岁了,他一年能赚多少,多少年才能还清啊?我想了个折中的办法,就提议借10万给她哥,只要还5万,她还是不同意,她哥哥就是差30多万。

我理解女友,她家里三个小孩就她考上了大学,在大城市工作,他家里人对她的期盼很高。可是这次真的超出我能力范畴了,我这该怎么办,要不要向父母开这个口?

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