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养儿子与女儿的差别

2017-06-01 16:36:14   

谁家生了儿子,说话都大声些,腰杆子挺得直。这个现象在农村特别严重,特别是五六十年代。

那是发生在两个邻居身上的事,大顺和大星都是同一年娶媳妇的。次年都添了孩子,只是大顺家是男孩,而大星家是女孩。第一胎,两家的婆婆都对儿媳很好。第二胎,大顺家双胞胎都是男孩。而大星家是女孩子,婆婆的脸色就越来越不好看了,邻居们都夸大顺媳妇会生。有时你越想越事与愿违。大顺家一共生了6个孩子,其中4个儿子,2个女儿。而大星家也是6个孩子,全是女儿。

那时靠劳动力吃饭的,大顺媳妇说话就越来越口满,而大星媳妇是做啥啥不对,只是大星对她还可以。随着孩子们的长大,大顺家越来越红火。走到哪都是骄傲,说起话来也口满。大星家还是老样子,只是认命命中无儿这个现实。让大女儿留家,招了上门女婿。

孩子们都长大成家了,大顺家的女儿嫁出去了,儿子娶媳妇回来不久就分家过,老两口单独过。而大星家除了让大女儿留家,招了上门女婿,其它几个都出嫁了。大顺老两口煮点饭,孙子都来吃,这个吃到了,那个没有吃到,就说两老的偏心,谁家的农活没有忙完,两老的只要去帮忙了,另外就说爱一个恨一个。逢年过节时,儿媳都带着孩子们一起回娘家,幸好还有女儿一家回来看望。

大星虽说是同女儿女婿住一起,但是也是三天一小吵,五天一大吵,最后也是分家单过。过年过节时,5个女儿都回来看望两老的,同在一个院子,大顺看到这样的情景,就回家把门锁好,到地里干活。人上了年纪,身体总这不舒服那不舒服,大顺老两口子也一样,干不动活了,分开住不是办法,几个儿子商量,轮流照顾一家一个月。就这样两老口分开了每家一个月。偶尔会同邻居们讲:年青时都没有分开过,年老了还要分开,我们还没有死呢?

大星两老口一直单独过,大女儿女婿很少照顾,只顾自己怎么开心,而其她几个女儿经常回来看望,一听说有病了,几个孩子都来帮忙。自己也种点菜什么的,偶尔还会女儿家小住。

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