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媒体调查空巢老人:你爸躺在地上 而你在通讯录里

2017-09-25 07:51:53   中国青年网

哈尔滨192.4万老年人口中有六成多“空巢老人”。他们不怕死却怕生病,更怕给孩子添麻烦。在他们的手机里,孩子永远在通讯录的第一位。他们可能正是你的父母或你的未来……

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我最无助的时候:你爸躺在地上,而你在通讯录里

65岁的朱阿姨一个人照顾瘫痪在床的老伴已5年了,担心突然病倒、担心各种突发情况,她会设想各种突然状况,脑子里预演过能想到的突发情景,但唯独没想过瘫痪的老伴会掉到地上。

三个月前的一天,凌晨两点多,“咣当”一声闷响,平时连翻身都没办法做到的老伴好像“睡毛了”,从床上掉到了地上。

朱阿姨要照顾生病卧床5年的老伴。

“我搂着他的腰,想把他抱到床上,可坐着抱我站不起身,站着弯腰抱我抬不起胳膊。”朱阿姨折腾了20多分钟,根本整不动。怕老伴着凉,她把一床毛毯从腰间铺在老伴身下,打开手机通讯录,里面包括独生女在内100多人,她却不知道该打给谁。

女儿远在成都,亲朋这个时间都在熟睡,刚强了一辈子的朱阿姨,在那一刻抱着老伴哭了……最后跑到楼下央求两位保安,一再保证即使出了问题也和人家没关系,两名保安才上楼帮忙把老伴搬到了床上。

一周后,朱阿姨将自家一间住屋对外出租,出租条件第一条就是“本分、老实、男孩”。

为了少得病,各种健身器材都玩转了。

今年春节女儿回来过年,和妈妈一起要给老爸洗个澡,干干净净过年。娘俩找个大床单,一人拽一头儿,把老爷子抬进卫生间,浴房里铺上瑜伽垫,给一年多只是擦擦身的老爸洗了个痛快澡。

等收拾完,朱阿姨看见平时大咧咧的女儿蹲在卫生间角落里,头埋得很深,哭得肩膀一直抖动,“妈,你一个人在家照顾爸太不容易了。你和我爸去成都吧,这样晚上我还能下班回来替替你。”

朱阿姨回了一句,“我上辈子肯定是‘该’你们家的,再说吧!”把女儿拉起来,心里却又告诉一次自己,“可不能病啊,老伴已经瘫痪了,自己再病倒,那简直要了姑娘的命啊! ”

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