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再读一次大学会怎么度过:25岁写给18岁的穿越留言

2017-09-15 10:51:53   中国青年网

资料图片,南京农业大学农学院的学生用舞蹈迎接新生。中新社记者 泱波 摄

如果再读一次大学你会怎么度过

25岁写给18岁的穿越留言

编者按:又到9月,又有百万年轻人——其中多数刚刚18岁——成为大学新鲜人。这是人生的新起点,又是人生岔路口。眼前的路通往四面八方,置身其中,可能难免如身在庐山、不识真面。有些事情,总是要等过去之后才能看清——但等到那时,可能又有悔之晚矣的遗憾。

为了给新人提供关于大学生活的一点参考,我们找来几位来自不同专业不同行业的“过来人”,跟他们聊了一个话题:如果时光倒流,可以再读一次大学,你会对穿越的自己讲些什么建议或教训?

所有受访者也同样是年轻人(都在25岁上下),他们的人生经验可能没有那么丰富,回答也详略不一,但我们相信,这些答案都足够真诚。

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相信我,一帆风顺不是一件好事情

大学要从选专业开始说起。回想我最初选择专业的时候,也没有太多了解,看报纸上“亮红灯”的专业就果断放弃。当时自己喜欢生物和化学,在高中班主任的建议下,选择了跟他儿子一样的专业(后来我知道他儿子转专业了)。不管怎么说,至少选择了自己喜欢的专业。还记得大一期末有转专业的机会,那时候因为自己成绩不错就不想转,而忘了学专业的初衷。现在觉得,考虑这个问题的时候,可能更应该抛开成绩,去问问自己的心。

刚上大学,生活方式和高中完全不一样,每个人可以选择非常不一样的业余生活,有一类人是长期在自习室的专职学霸,如果热爱科研,我觉得无可厚非;如果只是为了考个好成绩拿奖学金的话,我觉得时间花得不值。还有一类人参加各种社团、班级活动,我就是这一类型的。但是自己感觉这需要一个度。我现在回想,其实当时在这个过程中,是有点迷失自己的。而且那个时候希望得到的比别人多,也确实得到的比别人多,这样一来,我的心态就成了“只要我努力,我就应该得到更多的机会”。其实我忽略了一个问题,那就是:很多事情是不那么公平的,很多时候我是站在了幸运的那一边。你付出的多,结果可能不如预期,这时候你收获了什么呢?收获的是一种心态。这话听起来有点教条,但是很实在。因为心态这东西也是一个慢慢历练的过程,一帆风顺不是一件好事情。

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