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我做家务很累还被家人指责
杨晓娟,46岁,双鱼座
我满肚子的怨气来自两个方面,辛苦以及辛苦不被理解。首先我很辛苦,一回到家手脚都停不下来,太多的家务事等着我。我承认我对家里的清洁卫生要求比较高,看不得一点点脏乱,必须打扫得干净整洁,地板和家具每天要抹3遍,消毒液抹,清水抹,干抹。现在环境污染厉害,空气质量不好,家里再不弄干净点这日子还怎么过?我一个人每天要做近一百平方房子的清洁真的很累很累,坚决不同意再换更大更难打理的房子。为什么不请人做清洁?以前也试着请过外面的清洁公司,他们做的时候我要守在旁边随时提醒随时检查,但做完之后我还是要自己再做一遍才真正放心,更累,干脆就不请了,什么都亲力亲为自己做。
辛苦的人本来心里就有气,容易冒火,偏偏老公和儿子不仅不领情反而对我有很大意见,他们认为我成天自讨苦吃也让他们很辛苦很压抑,还说我不愿意搬家换大房子让他们不能提高生活质量。
我的辛苦不仅不被理解,还被他们指责,我有多委屈!我们一家人都爱面子,也不喜欢吵架,更不愿意在外人面前暴露家里的矛盾,别人看起来幸福和睦,其实已经隐藏了很多的不满和抱怨。如果只有我们3个人在家里,通常情况是我在不停地做事,他们要么冷眼旁观要么还反过来批评我,我做牛做马为了给他们一个干净卫生的家,他们却说我洁癖,神经质。小时候和我更亲的儿子现在已经完全叛变到他父亲那一面去了。老公一批评我,他立马帮腔,想想真寒心。
手记
以洁癖的形式强迫什么?控制什么?
近日下午,我和杨晓娟在南坪的一家茶楼见面。杨晓娟伸出双手,又叫我伸出双手,感伤地说你的手又白又胖,一看就是从来不做事的手。你看我的手,又老又粗,你好幸福。我只有老老实实回答,我对家里的清洁要求不算高,及格就可以了,大清洁每周请了人来做,平时实在看不下去自己才简单做一下。
讲究卫生,爱清洁肯定是好习惯。我只是觉得,如果坚持要家里的清洁卫生达到90分以上标准,那就意味着必须耗费大量的时间精力,而人的时间精力是有限的,在清洁卫生方面耗得太多,在其他方面就会欠缺,比如闲适和慵懒的时间自然会减少,在我看来,家最重要的功能是让家人放松,自在。牺牲这个就是得不偿失。我坦陈了自己的看法。
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